Is she FAKING it?
The statistics that I read say that 70% of women fake orgasms. So I guess that means there is a good chance that your and my girl are faking as well. What are we doing wrong? Maybe she’s not comfortable with us or maybe were just not doing something right. Faking doesn’t mean she’s not enjoying it just means she’s not enjoying to her full potential. So how do you know if she’s faking? I am going to tell you.
There are two major ways that a woman achieves orgasm. One is with clitoral stimulation and two is having their g spot worked. It’s usually one or the other but not both. You need to know what sends your girl over the edge. Chances are if you do something different and she orgasms then she is faking.
There are a number of ways to tell if your lady is faking her orgasm
1. You don’t want to hear porn movie sounds coming out of your lover. Remember those girls are doing it for the camera so if she is making porn movie sounds then there’s a good chance she is faking.
2. When the two of you are performing any sex acts and you decide to take a break for a minute and she keeps moaning, well you guessed it. This isn’t a good sign. It’s actually a good sign that she’s faking.
3. If the two of you are making love and she is having an orgasm then her PC muscle should go nuts. It should be gripping your penis like there is no tomorrow.
4. One last thing is that she should breathe heavy for quite a while after an orgasm. If the breathing goes back to normal almost immediately then chances are she is faking.
Now these rules don’t apply to all women. Remember everyone is different. However if you are seeing a lot of the examples above I would assume that she is faking. I don’t know about you but if my woman is faking I want to know why. Is it me? Is it her? Is it both of us?
The question is:
So why is it that girl fake orgasm? I am going to try and enlighten you.
1. Probably the main reason girl’s fake orgasms are because they have never had one. That’s right many girls have never had an orgasm. I hate to tell you this men but it’s usually your fault that the women haven’t had an orgasm. You just want to be quick and get done instead of taking care of your lady.
2. Some women have different body types that don’t allow them to produce enough lube or they have very thin vaginal walls. Both of these will make a woman sore very fast. In turn there usually isn’t enough time to have an orgasm before getting too sore.
3. The last one that I think is terrible because it is usually the mans fault is that she thinks if she doesn’t have an orgasm every time then she is going to upset you. That’s not fair to the girl. It puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on the girl and a lot of strain on the relationship.
So now the important part is to get her to stop faking. In order to do this you are going to have to be open with her. The two of you have to carry on good conversation together. You as a guy have to learn to understand why she does it and what you can do to help her. Sometimes all it takes is to be a little more caring and gentle and then everything will fall into place.
Dale has been happily married for twenty years and considers himself an expert on the relationship topics. You can check out his newly formed relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or two more of his up and coming blogs are http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
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Thomas
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Gabrielle, you are an expert! Thanks for your advice!
Tim
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Thanks Gabrielle! One question, if I download your eBook will I be able to print it?
johnson
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Ever since I started reading your advice, it always came to my mind that my gal will always change and i guess what, it was about time. I get surprises like I pay for them , or rather are free off trees! I really don’t know how to thank you wonderful Moore, thank you Gabrielle. I look forward to buying your book so much.
abderezzak
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salam
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Hi, gabriela
hope you will be fine by the grace of almighty(aameen).thanx for your informative mails on the most hidden subject.Personally i m in need of your help as i find you more techinical on this subject rather than being emotional only.I am a professional and working abroad.most of the time have to away from my wife due to reasons of work.I have has 2 wonderfull kids together also,but the one thing which is not solved tillnow, is that she likes having sex almost every time when i touch her.but as soon as we finish our job she feels pain at her labia majora.specially during urinating.we did take the advice of our gynos but all of them is telling the same thing that since you are doing this after a long gap that is the only reason.but for me i feel much frustrated when i see pain on her face.May i request you to please help me in this regard if you have any specific informations how to solve this,
regards
salam
Ivan
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Thanks for the heads up about women faking orgasm,I learn something new everyday.Dig this Gabrielle you are one special woman to give up some much game to cat like me.Good looking out for giving me great advice and keep doing your thang lil mama.
Katerina Castello
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well i have been with my man for a year and a half, and like most women i’d never had an orgasm and worst of allthe sex was predictable…i never orgams whether he was hard or not..but now he stimulates my clitoris till i’m about to cum….then follows it up by penetration and the orgasm is intense and amazing…sometimes i don’t wanna leave bed…
zh khan
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hello
thanx for all the emails you have been sending and making me great in bed. Now i spend more time with my wife in the bed just cuddling and kissing each other and I have noticed that she is responding very well. I now give full attention to her body and started loving every delicate part of her and she is responding as if she is back to 16years young girl.
thanx again
jaali3
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i caught my gf fakin it after following u r tips so i talked to her about it n tried to convince her that she does not need to fake it as i totally understand her problem.so she told me it was her fantasy n fetish to c me have sex wth her friends from amity school of biotechnology ,amity university sector 125 noida.these friends whose real names are mentioned below r very hot n easy to bed type of girls they r lakshmi,prachi,saumya,lopaa,deepti,sneha 2nd yr boitech,ruchi yadav n roli 3rd yr b tech comp sc.bieng wth so many girls made my dick stand up n give my girlfriend priyanka the best sex n have multiple orgams…..all i did to last long was drink red bull with bhokaals milk…this milk has medicinal properties