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101 Responses to “I Need Your Help To… Last All Night!”

1. bryan Says:

   anything & all things will help !
   I just want to please my wife !

2. Arnold Says:

   Thanks Gabrielle, i love your website.. gab i think it would be great to teach us in the course last all night techniques to help us control ejaculation.

   Just imagine if we could decide when we want to cum. it would be great and we would last longer.

   thanks, keep up the good work gab!

3. Shane Says:

   If I do cum how is the best way to get excited and back in the mood again quickly for a second round?

4. Bill Says:

   I have Type 2 Diabetes [age 50] Sometimes Viagra or cialis dosen’t work let along lasting all night, how can you help me to get hard and LAST LONGER? Thanks

5. Lance Says:

   Hi Gabrielle,

   Thanks for all the emails… even at 52 I have learned a few things that should have been common place. I don’t have a problem with restraint… just maintaining an erection for that 1 hr session or more.

   Any advice ?

6. fernando Says:

   I would like to know on what is there to cure premature ejaculation besides using creams and pills I do not believe does thing works please help me out on any way to cure this problem.

7. Randy Says:

   From post already, to last all night, how about us over 50 just lasting longer and what things are needed for us older lovers.

8. AL Says:

   Mind exercise last but also giving pleasure,thank u!
   al

9. Larry SF Bay Says:

   OK, fine, I can last all night but my wife only wants quickies so she can get her “sleep”. How do I keep HER interest up all night?

10. Dave Says:

    Hi Gabrielle,

    Yes, I would like to know what foods, vitamins suppliments and skills could be used to increase the volume and intensity of the male’s climax. My lady loves it when I cum in or on her, I want to increase her pleasure with a stronger and more intense climax. I know this may sound strange, and yes it would give me more feeling - but I really do want her to feel more pleasure, she’s beautiful, fantastic and really deserves it.

11. Bill Says:

    Gabrialle, I can last about as long as I want or as long as my partner is interested. What interests me is how to keep my partner ready and lubed up so she doesn’t get sore and WANTS more sex.

12. John Says:

    Hi, Gabrielle,
    My wife saw her doc today, because she has “NO” sex drive and can not get aroused. Her thyriod level,testone, etc lab are all normal. And he said your creams are too expense and don’t always work. So, I’m a large truck driver 6′/wt;260 she is 5′2″/125, I need alittle adv here Please!! John

13. John Says:

    After the first wave of holding back an ejaculation how do I sustain an erection time after time of holding back?

14. George Says:

    I want to be able to last longer so she is begging me to stop

15. Intrigue Says:

    my biggest problem is when a girl puts up major LMR not just a little and when she finally conceeds to sex I get really excited because of all the touture she put me through

16. Ron Says:

    Gabiel

    Love the web site - looks like you are approaching the holy grale

17. Bob Says:

    how about the difference in pleasure of what you’re suggesting, and that of drugs such as viagra.

18. Breen Says:

    1) How to keep lubricated in a 10 hour session.
    2) How to keep awake at work the next day.

19. moses Says:

    Hullo Gab
    Would like to know how I can get back to erection after ejaculation.it rather takes long for me to get back

20. Eric Says:

    I totally agree with all of these comments, but also what sorts of lubes or oils are best for getting through the long haul without having to re-apply all the time or at all?

21. Matt Says:

    I would really like to know how to last longer all the time. Sometimes I can go quite awhile. Other times not long at all. Please help. I would truley like to please my wife eveytime.

22. Mark Says:

    I wanna know about how to last all night n stil maintain a strong erection

23. Phil Says:

    Dave got it all there.

24. Matthew Says:

    Much of what I read deals with increasing the desire, libido, etc, however in my case there is absolutely no problem there. The problem is lasting long enough without ejaculating, where interest in sex is no problem. Also, I find that I can last longer when engaging in some types of sexual activity compared to others. E.g. when my wife rides me on top I find this far more stimulating and therefore climax much quicker, usually far too quickly for me to stay erect long enough for her to climax too. Thus, we hardly ever do this (her riding me), despite the fact that we both enjoy it more than any other activity together, to ensure I last long enough for my wife to have an orgasm too. By the way, my wife has no problem achieving vaginal orgasms, and far prefers them to any other way of climaxing. She can also have multiple orgasms. Therefore, she needs me to last as long as possible. If you can address my specific needs, that would be fantastic. Thanks.

25. Maurrin Says:

    Always looking to please my wife better.

26. John Says:

    Hello Gabrielle,

    1) I heard that there are some special exercises Kegel’s also for men, which are important for men after 50.
    Have you heard something about it?

    2) I saw a book (not in English language)written by husband and wife, who are also sex therapists and they said that, orgasm can last even one hour, that men can also extend to one hour. Is it true?
    I ordered such book but it will take many weeks to get it from Europe.

    Thank you for your help
    John

27. michael Says:

    hi Gabrielle,
    Anything all things help We just love your courses

28. Kevin Says:

    How about addressing the Viagra & Cialis factors. Do they work? Should they be used? How about addressing natural vs chemical? You know, just something about it.

29. Jay Says:

    Hello Gabrielle,
    Well it takes me anywhere between 30 to 45 minutes to get back to a full hard on.I would like to know what I can do to quicken the process

30. Edward Says:

    To last all night ! well,If their was ever, an example of a man and a woman really needing to “work together” on something ,that, would be it .. Gabrelle will you please give instructions for better comunication between the man and his woman.. I mean,it doesen`t ( help the cause )as it were,if he is trying to delay ejaculation,to last longer and she wants to go 80 mph ! as it were..you need to give instruction for him and “for her “,too. she needs to know ,that she can “help him “to last longer…

31. Gary Says:

    This is a topic that needs alot more attention.There are millions of men out there who suffer from Premature Ejaculation and we need some major help with this problem.This problem dosen’t only affect us men it also affects women.If a man can’t perform long a women has no intress in sex with him anymore and that is alot of stress on both him and her.If they can find help for men with E.D. why can’t they find help for men with P.E. Alot of the products out there now don’t work.We need something that will Please help us find help.

32. Gary Says:

    Hi Gabrielle,

    I have tried many things, and I have found the only way I can “go the distance” is by mind power - no alcohol etc, just stay focused, and above all - RELAX , lay back and enjoy !!

33. Jackson Says:

    Gabrielle, I’d like to learn more about male orgasms. Thanks!

34. Sheldon Says:

    is it true that to last the hole night you have to hold back from ejaculation

35. Tobes Says:

    Love your website - keep up the good work!
    It would be great if you could give us some techniques on how to maintain erections for longer periods (up to 1 hour), and also how to quickly get hard again once you’ve cum for the first time.

36. Vernie Says:

    Dear Gabi

    I would want to know how I could ensure that my wife remains in that “zone” before cumming for as long as possible

    thanks

37. Ray Says:

    I want to know how to stop the ejaculation when u feel that it coming.
    I think it can be a way to last longer.

38. denden Says:

    Hi Gab, i would LOOOVE to know how to control my nut, it gets a bit frustrating when your mrs is under you sayin “dont stop baby” and your on top thinking “SHIT!!!!!” i cant remember the last time i climbed off her leavin her lookin like a train wreck on the bed! Why is that? when we first got together the sex was so intense but i could last so much longer but now that we’ve been together for a while, as soon as i put it in i can feel the nut ready to jump out. Why is that Gab? Before i could pound the crap out of her but now NOTHING!!!

39. Steve Says:

    Hi! Gabby!! This is a great idea since the majority of men are suffering silently without knowing how they can intensify sexual pleasure for longer leave alone the frustration their partners have to contend with since their orgasm usually takes longer. Please try to address the issue of timing because it’s very satisfying to have the lady cum first and the man to summarise. Give us tips on how to remain hard after the first round and maintain the interest to continue since at times sleep usually takes over. The issue of after-play, I suppose, should also be crucial since it helps ladies not to feel like they are just tools to be used for male satisfaction especially when they end up not cumming due to PE.
    Otherwise keep up the good work you are doing. Do also attempt to answer some querries we usually pose as we comment.
    Thanx and a thousand KISSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

40. Miguel Says:

    I need mental tips on how to last longer. I do great up until my woman begins to vocalize her pleasure. Hearing her scream and moan drives me over the edge every single time. Often, I can’t hold on long enough for her to orgasm and it frustrates me. She will often say “I was so close”. Of course, I’d love to be able to hold on long enough for her.

41. bill Says:

    how to get my wife to have sex more than once in a day

42. Jim Filhart Says:

    What kinds of foods should I eat to help me make more kum, if any, does anything help. Also does anything really make the penis longer?

43. Adaptive Says:

    Gabreille g,

    I want my wife to be overwhelmingly,begging-like satisfaied,also to last at least 5 to 8 minutes splendidly.so please,please do give d great tips to stay longer & njoy the ha,hi,ho,hmmm,ohhh.ok tc

44. Ishme Says:

    i wish that if you can give advices for my food, what i need to biuld my body and make it sexy
    i think this will also help to increase the performance and give other pleasure to my wife

45. Chilz Says:

    Hi,glad to be part of your ever growing family of interested in learning people.I know this may sound weird but i was wondering if the size of the manhood has any effect on how long a man can last in bed.You response will be highly appreciated.

46. Alan Says:

    How to shorten the refractory time?

47. Kevin H Says:

    Just is there a way to be able to recover quicker. I just want to please my wife completely and fully.

48. Duncan Says:

    As I have passed the 50 mark I find that when I ejaculate I do not have much force and quantity in my shot I would like to know how to increase my pressure and volume, excellent work Gab. keep it up.
    Duncan

49. Arnold Says:

    Yes, i would like to know which areas must a man kiss on a woman’s body that can excite her and cause tremendous explosions.

50. MR X Says:

    PC exercises is a natural way to get stronger erections..
    information on that would be good

51. Joe Says:

    My objective to last all night is not self satisfaction and pleasure only, but also the fact that my woman has to enjoy and feel equally aroused. So I would appreciate pointers on how to mutually enjoy and savor the whole night lasting love making. How to add in new excitements and other supplements to make it more romantic and sexciting…mind you please, not sex toys or roleplays.
    Thanks,
    Joe

52. Richard Says:

    Hi Gabrielle,

    I would like it to include, if it doesn’t already, physical techniques i can use to handle my penis to prevent ejaculation, any specific spots that can stop the “point of no return” feeling.

    Regards.

53. Michael Says:

    Gabrielle,

    There should be something included concerning lasting longer during intercourse vs having an erection for a long time. While performing cunnilingus, manual stimulation, erotic massage or other prolonged pleasuring activities, an erection could subside even though you are still very interested. Women need to know that, just like her wetness does not necessarily imply level of excitement, erections in men can rise and fall during an all night session.

    I think the control factor is the most important aspect - getting an erection when “required” and ejaculating at a reasonable time. Sometimes you want it quick and sometimes you want it to last. Concentrating on the fun and pleasure of intimately bonding and exploring each other’s mind and body should be encouraged as well as lasting longer.

54. Robert Says:

    I have heart disease and peripheral artery disease so I have endurance issues. I would love to go all night long but wonder if it is possible without waking up with a sexual hangover from exhaustion.

55. Anthony Says:

    Hay Gab!

    Is there anything to a mans diet to help in the process of being able to go all night?

    Like stated in other questions… is there a way to increase volume of ejaculation?

    Also… Once I start to feel the orgasm coming… how do I stop it without loosing the wood?

    If you can suggest what we can do to get her in the mood to go all night long too. Aphrodisiacs to help her get in the mood? Any thing to aphrodisiacs?

56. Abe Says:

    Helli,Gebrella
    Thanks for feeding the information and really i badly need your advise on he best techniques and procedures how to make partner pleased.
    regards

57. Jeff Says:

    I would like to know what exercises we can do together that will help me last longer. I’ve heard there are some start-stop things we can do but don’t know what they are. I love it when she plays with my cock in her hands. Tell us how to turn that into an exercise.

58. Abebe Says:

    Hi,Gebrella
    your advise will be so wonderful to save the sexual life of parteners.

59. MR J Says:

    I would like my wife to have orgasm every single time I make love to her. Can you help?

60. john Says:

    i would like my partner to take more action, she just lies there & its me who has to istigate sex, she never suggests anything, i would like to last longer ,but because there is a lack of response from her, i just satisfy myself, but i really want her to experience the thrill of an orgasm, by the way i amm 58 years old ,so is my partner[soon to be 59].any advise gratefully received, thanks gabby , your doing us men a great favour

61. Timothy Says:

    First of all I want to THANK YOU for all the great advice over the past year. My wife really loves it. Staying hard for longer would be great but the best part of sex is right at the end , My wife says if it could stay that hard she would cum in a few mins. But it is right before i cum.I’m not small 8 in long 2 around so I fill her to the brim .I sometimes hit bottom to hard but she still can’t cum with me in her. Please help…

62. Gary Says:

    Yes, I would like to how to have male multiple orgasms,contorl my ejaculations to when I want, or when she wants me to, and to be able to keep her in the mood after her first orgasm, thanks

63. Carl Says:

    The Holy Grail–To climax without ejeculation–and then continue.

64. Keith Says:

    I do pretty well lasting as long as the sex is slow, which I actually prefer. But my wife and I know other women like to be fucked fast and hard lots of times…well when the speed picks up the climax for me comes alot quicker. My wife likes to fuck a long time long that, but it doesn’t get to happen with me when she starts going like wild. Thats one reason I like MMF 3somes with her with a guy that can do that with her. I like slow sensual sex best for me but would like to be able to do the wild slamming kind too that lasts awhile.

65. Bob Says:

    Gabrielle:

    This is a good subject, like many of the men here I am interested in how to “recover” faster (I am 50 and it takes sometimes a couple of hours - depends on how “into it” we both are) and also anything on multiple male orgasms (is it just a myth or is there truth to this). Holding back is ok - but takes some of the pleasure out of the experience if I have to be focused on that instead of her.

    Thanks!

66. BJ Says:

    With the “Last All Night” focus, I understand the press method (to last longer) but how do men keep from over sensitizing our partners from stimulation, cremes/lotions etc. work temporarily… How do we comfort out partners, ourselves. Also, mind focus, as I have mentioned previously after breaking my neck and (luckily) able to walk I have CNS damage which interfere with normal sex, so I have been trying to improve orally what I cannot do otherwise.

    Thank you for all of your support and guidance…

67. lat Says:

    if i ejaculate to soon how do i maintain my errection? and how do i control when to ejaculate?

    thanks for the e-mails!

68. Marc Heidemann Says:

    I find that I last longer when my partner gives me a mixture of manual and oral stimulation. Also slow is better in everything from getting aroused to staying aroused. Lots of forelay is best for me.

69. L Says:

    I would like to know if there is a position that can help your mate have more stamina?

70. Johnny Says:

    I WOULD LOVE TO LAST LONGER TO MAKE MY WIFE GO WILD

71. jack Says:

    I thank you for all that you do. I would like to know how to have multiple orgasms while lasting longer too.

72. Bernard Nagy Says:

    I am a 75 years old male. I learned to be a lover with your guidance. Manon, my lover is 55 years old and very exciting. I get my erection by caressing and kissing her body and by pleasing her with the cunnilingus I learned from you. She reacts physically and vocally to the pleasures she is getting. She would need more sex, but unfortunately, even with masturbation (self and hers) I cannot get a second erection. She told me that she is afraid to be unfaithful because of that. I want to please her and make her happy. Can you propose a solution to this sad situation ?

73. Kyle Dudley Says:

    Just lasting longer, I’ve never been criticized about it, but I’m sure lasting longer wouldn’t be a bad thing.

74. dragan Says:

    I wont to last longer in sex life to please my wife and my grllfriend too, my wife have a boyfriend too but I wont to be bigger lover than he is and to love her longer. Gabbriele please help me to find the write way to do that.
    SINCIRELY YOURS DRAGAN FROM MACEDONIA , LOVE AND KISSES TO YOU LADY OF THE FORGOTEN SECRETS OF TRU LOVE LIFE, THANKS.

75. Bob Says:

    Gabby, Thank you so much for your tips on improving my sex life. My question is: I lose my erection very quickly if I’m not constantly stimulated, I assume because of Toprol, my blood pressure drug. Without Viagra, once I lose my erection, it’s gone for at least 30-45 minutes. During masturbation, I can keep an erection for 20 minutes or so by stopping before orgasm and ejaculation, but eventually, even without orgasm, I get a lot of pre-ejaculate then lose my erection. With Viagra, I can get hard again after losing my erection, but still have trouble maintaining it. Viagra is also expensive and has side effects. What can I do to get and stay hard?

76. thom Says:

    I’m surprised at the things I’ve learned from just a few emails that I’ve received. I look forward to checking my mail so I can learn more. Lasting longer is my number one goal. My wife has expressed to me that this would be the one area she feels would really improve things for her and thus for us. I’m so ready!

77. Pat Says:

    How to control ejaculation time, and ways to turn on girlfriend without having to touch her in a sexual way to start things off, and get her in the mood so in the future she will be the the one to start sexual sessions.

78. eric Says:

    Well i can last somwhere around 15 min when i make love slowly but nowhere near as close when i have wild rough sex, so im wondering if there is anything besides thrusting slowly in order to help me acheive longer lasting sessions. I’ve also heard of really weird techniques such as thinking of something else during sex wich is kinda hard to do and to me kinda of defeats the pupose.

79. Big O (Jiblets) lol Says:

    yea i would like to know how to bust and still stay hard

80. Dacosta Says:

    Ideally when things get real hot and your woman is screaming and going for it, I would like to be able to maintain the erection right through until she fully cums, so that if she immediately wants to go again I am right there ready to go again. It is important to maintain a very hard erection right through to ensure your partner is fully satisfied. Nothing sounds better the the gasp of satisfaction afterwards,and the words
    “that felt really big,hard and good”

81. George Says:

    My girlfriend says that if we go too long she loses her excitement and interest. I don’t know if it’s my problem or hers.

82. Josh Says:

    Hi,

    I was thinking it might be relevant to include tips on multiples for guys, or more specifically orgasm without ejaculation at will.

    Thanks for all your tips!

83. Vayden Says:

    How to stop premature ejaculation and last longer without wanting to cum

84. Doris Chi Says:

    I will be happier if my husband can be cured of premature ejaculation. Can u tell me what to do pls.

85. john Says:

    how can i get my wife to last all nite, i almost always end up wanting more

86. SUDS Says:

    DURING A LONG SESSION WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO KEEP HER WANTING MORE SO SHE DONT LOSE INTEREST AFTER LONG PERIOD.

87. Kendall Says:

    A section on health and nutrition would be very helpful. Know how to keep yourself healthy, what workout regiments are required, what foods are best to eat etc would be very interesting and helpful. Vitamin supplements etc. Also a note about older males and what advice you have for those of us that aren’t as young and viral as we once were. These are the things I would be looking for.

88. frank Says:

    Hi Gabrielle,
    I’d like to find out more. From basics to advanced. Techniques to practice alone, as well as with my partner. I look forward to reading your book.

89. David Says:

    What things can my wife do to either help in sustaining an erection or prolonging ejaculation. Most of the focus is on what can us men do. When intercourse and intimacy is a mutual event.

90. SANFORD Says:

    HELLO SOFT & LOVELY. ONE WAY THIS TOPIC IS GREAT IS THAT A GUY CAN USE THIS WHEN HE IS BEING GIVEN ORAL SEX OR A PLEASURING HAND JOB(JACKED-OFF). I AM ALSO INTERESTED IN ANYTHING (FOOD, DRING, ETC.)THAT COULD INCREASE SEMEN AMOUNT/PRODUCTION DURING THE ORGASM! YOU ARE A SWEETIE!
    KISSES, SANFORD

91. DAVIT Says:

    DOES KEG EL(PC) EXERCISES WORK? WHAT SEXUAL POSITIONS ARE BEST TO LAST LONG? DOES ANY HERBS/VITAMINS WILL HELP FOR PE? HOW TO HAVE ROCK HARD PENIS? HOW TO HAVE INTENSE EJACULATION? HOW TO INCREASE AMOUNT OF SEMEN PRODUCTION? IS THERE ANY SPECIFIC FOOD THAT HELP ME AND MY PARTNER TO INCREASE SEX DRIVE? HOW CAN I HELP MY PARTNER TO INTERESTED IN SEX MORE AND INCREASE HER LIBIDO? SHE HAS LOW SEX DRIVE. HOW CAN I MAKE HER INTERESTED IN MULTIPLE SEX SESSIONS IN A NIGHT? HOW CAN I MAKE HER INTERESTED IN ADVENTURES, SPONTANEOUS AND HIT OF THE MOMENT SEX? BEFORE ME, SHE SAID SHE DID SO MUCH SPONTANEOUS AND HIT OF THE MOMENT SEX WITH PREVIOUS BOYFRIENDS, AND NOW SHE SAID THOSE DAYS ARE OVER. BUT SHE DOES NOT SAY WHY. IS IT ME OR SHE DID WHAT SHE WANTED AND SHE THINKS/FEELS SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THAT WAY/BEHAVE OR DO THOSE ACTS AGAIN BECAUSE SHE TOOK IT OUT OF HER SYSTEM ALREADY AND SHE IS DONE.
    I NEED SOME HELP AND ADVICE ON THESE ISSUES HOW TO HANDLE.

    BEST WISHES.
    DAVIT

92. Kiz Says:

    Hi Gabriel,
    Lasting a couple of hours would be the bomb!!!! So bring it on.
    Kiz

93. Ron Says:

    Hi Gabrielle, Hopefully you’ll include in the course these two questions I have: What specific sexual positions and techniques help a man last longer WHILE he is having sex with his wife/girlfriend and my other questions is after the man ejaculates what are the ways to get another erection in the shortest time possible? Love, Ron

94. david Says:

    Hi Gabriel,
    including other exercises besides kegels [if there are any] and just anyways to last longer.

95. Densil Says:

    Hi Gabriele,
    Ofcourse girls want the sex drive to last long, not mere insert n CUM and then laid to rest is all not worth to enjoy. something more in taking her to heaven n beyond and she should say OH you have killed me !
    I would like 2 points to be included in ur new book
    1. licking techniques, ways to last long time.
    eg: licking with honey, ice cream etc. on her clit
    2. how to make 69 position more interesting and make
    it longer time.

96. Matt Says:

    On a serious note…..I am larger around and longer then the average man….ie I have hit the back “wall” of my wife several times and we have to start very slow to let her muscles of her vagina to expand engough. My problem is I have used gels that lowers sensitivity, it fails to work. I have tried the muscle strengthing, I have tried to imagine I am somewhere else, I have tried all the tricks, still the same result. Great sex for 10mins, then bang I cum. What else can I do????

97. Noray Says:

    What are ways 2 last longer without taking any stimulants? What positions allow men 2 last longer and at the same time make my girl orgasm.

98. John Ogundeji Says:

    How can I last longer even when I’m already tired from the day’s work?

99. Devina Says:

    How to make rounds go longer and longer rather than shorter and shorter?!?!?!

    But also, how to stay at his hardest if he does last a long time?!?!

100. ABC Says:

     Lets see this what Gabri has for his coutomers. i am stunned to see this topic.

101. Chuck Says:

     Being able to “hold off” or controlling the timing of my ejaculation would be a great plus to our lovemaking. But as I age I find that holding an erection for extended periods of time becomes more and more a problem. Suggestions along this line would be very beneficial.

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