How to Buy a Vibrator
Vibrators are the highest selling sex toys and the sales figures will rise further when a lot more people get over their fear of walking into a shop to ask the store clerk, ”hey, you got any vibrators?”
Why vibrators?
A lot of women out there have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm and that’s where vibrators come in. Vibrators have helped this category of women achieve that desired first orgasm and sexual satisfaction. There are good vibrators and great vibrators. This how-to guide provides you with the information you need to purchase great vibrators.
#1: What do you want?
This perhaps is the first question you need to ask yourself. Do you want an anal, clitoral or vaginal vibrator? Anal vibrators are great if you’re looking for anal stimulation. They are great for prostatic stimulation in men and for stimulating the G-spot from behind, in women. Clitoral vibrators were designed primarily to “vibe” your clitoris to give you an orgasm. Vaginal vibrators stimulate the vaginal wall and the G-spot. There are vibrators that provide combined vaginal and clitoral stimulation. To minimize the risk of transmitting an infection, never use a vaginal vibration anally.
#2: Go for perfect.
Vibrators come in varying sizes, shapes and colors. You want a vibrator that is just perfect for you. Some come smooth while others are made to have the veins, bumps and curves of a real penis; they also come in a variety of colors and need I say, sizes.
#3: What’s it made from?
They can be made from plastic, silicone, rubber, vinyl or latex. You should go for a vibrator made from a material which you aren’t allergic to.
#4: Waterproof is always better.
Bath tubs, showers and pools are excellent places to have sex whether with a partner or alone. In these scenarios, waterproof vibes come in handy – the best features are that they can also be used out of water and they are easy to clean.
#5: Lifespan is important.
Out there in the market, there are vibrators and there are VIBRATORS. Vibrators have an unpredictable life span and no warranties whatsoever. VIBRATORS are of the highest quality and come with a manufacturer warranty.
#6: Hand-held or wearable?
It’s all a matter of control. The hand-held vibrators give you better control – you decide what you want and how you want it; wearable vibes on the other hand are designed to be worn around the finger, to go around the base of the penis or to be worn by women around their waist – they are fun and give your hands freedom to do other things.
#7: Battery or AC powered?
Some vibrators run on battery while others have a power cord that plugs into a wall socket. The batter operated vibes are inexpensive, come in a wider variety of shapes, sizes and colors. They are more functionally versatile and need no electrical outlet; they are also quieter than electric vibrators during operation. Major drawbacks however are that they tend to have a shorter life span. The choice basically depends on which you find less “bulky”.
#8: Price vs Quality.
There is no rule that says price and quality have to be directly proportional. It is your responsibility to know what products have the features you’re interested in and then select the best priced product based on the available features.
The Sexiest Way She Can Put ‘Protection’ On You
If you use condoms for birth control or disease control, you know how to put one on. Your woman likely does too (and hopefully she’s the one doing it most of the time). But let’s face it — it gets boring.
The condom application follows the same pattern – someone rips open the condom package, pulls out the condom and rolls it down your manhood. Further sexual activity commences.
But what if you could make all this a part of the sex act? Instead of stopping your sexual activity to put on the condom, wouldn’t it be great if you could make that part of your lovemaking? It might seem a bit counterintuitive, but in fact, putting on a condom can be a highly erotic act… if she puts the condom on for you with her mouth.
How She Can Seductively Put ‘Protection’ On You
This is a delicate procedure, so it’s important that you guys understand the rules of engagement. The first and most important rule is NO TEETH. Tell her this again and again. Not only can this hurt you (as you well know) but it could damage the condom and then all that effort you expended to put the condom on will be for naught.
So, how is this technique performed? Read the steps below, and then share with your lady. You can guide her through it the first time.
First, have more than one condom handy. The first one might not be usable, or she might damage it on her first try. Not having a condom can vastly change the sexual experience, so make sure you are well prepared.
Next, consider having flavored condoms handy. A condom is not the tastiest thing in the world and you might have a hard time convincing your lady to do this if she’s tasting latex flavor in her mouth. But something that tastes like strawberries, chocolate, or (sexy) cherries? Now, that’s worth popping in your mouth.
Ok, onto technique. Here’s how it’s done:
- Your woman should first check each condom for a hole by gently blowing into the condom. If there’s even a pin-size hole, she’ll know (the condom will deflate quickly after air is blown into it). Discard any bad condoms. And not that we’re implying you should get it on more often or anything but make sure the condom is not expired. Condoms do break down over time and will lose their effectiveness.
- After that dull stuff is out of the way, she should put the condom in her mouth with the rolled part right on her lips and the tip placed so it’s right against her tongue.
- She should lubricate your manhood. She might do this before she puts the condom in her mouth. She can use her mouth, or a store-bought lube, but you should be well lubricated first.
- Next, she should lower her head so it’s right over your manhood and she should gently place her mouth around the tip of the penis so that the condom starts to cup the tip of it. (You could tell her that at this point, a little tip-of-the-penis play with her tongue might be fun.)
- Now she should let go of the condom from her mouth so that it drops over your manhood. With just her lips, she should then begin to unroll the condom down. It’s important that she use just her lips and not her teeth. The motion is much like when she gives you a blow job – she likely doesn’t use her teeth then, either.
- She should unroll the condom with her lips as far as she can. If she needs to, she can finish the job with her fingers, but with practice, she’ll likely be able to do the job completely with her mouth.
Now, keep in mind that this is an art form. It can make sex vastly more exciting, but it is not something that most women will master the first time she tries it. And the first few times, it might take a few minutes as she gets accustomed to this decidedly awkward activity. But after a few tries, it really takes not much longer than putting a condom on by hand… but it’s oh so much more fun!
Four Easy Steps to Creating a Sacred Sex Place at Home
It’s likely that one of the reasons everyone has more sex on vacation is because there’s a sense of ‘specialness’ about staying in a hotel room. It’s quiet, there are no children, or dishes, or jobs. And yes, the lack of distractions and stress make it easier to focus on lovemaking!
But you know, it’s possible to create that special and sacred environment at home too. It might take a bit of work, but if you want to create your own sacred sex space, the rewards will be well worth the effort.
Here, then, we offer four spectacular tips to creating your own homemade sacred sex space.
Figure out where this special sex space should be.
The obvious choice will be the bedroom, and that’s the most reasonable. Here’s why: if you have children, it’s the most private and special place in the house for you to create a sacred sex area. It’s also the one area of the house you can make off-limits to kids. But even if you don’t have children, your bedroom is still your best bet simply because it’s the place people will likely enter the least. People generally won’t invite themselves into your bedroom during a party or visit, so it’s a space that you can keep private, special and even a bit naughty, if you like (and we’ll get to that in a minute).
Make it special.
What does this mean? Essentially our recommendation here is that you think about what your woman wants in her special sex space. Your needs are important too, don’t misunderstand but she needs more to get and keep her turned on. She will be affected by smells, touch and a feeling of luxury.
And her utter appreciation of the time you took to make this space special with her needs in mind is sure to benefit you, if you know what I mean.
Think about your lady. Is she a pink kind of girl? Perhaps she’s into candles, incense, and things of that nature. Pop into a candle store and buy some beautiful candles that have a great smell that will NOT bother you (think vanilla or lavender). After all, it’s your sacred sex place too, right?
Music is important. Can you bring in a small boom box or set the TV to bring in satellite radio? How about buying an iPod compatible system in so you can listen to your (and her) favorite tunes?
Making this space special also means getting rid of clutter. If your sacred space is the bedroom, get rid of the dirty laundry on the floor, the papers on the dresser and the kids’ toys sprinkled about.
This is about you and her, and keeping that focus is important. Don’t just keep it clean when you’re ready for a little loving. Keeping your sacred lovemaking space all clean all the time lowers stress levels, helping you to relax more, whin in turn makes you more receptive or in the mood for lovemaking.
Think about BOTH your needs.
What do the two of you like to do while making love? Are you all about the spiritual connection? In that case, be sure that you do have the candles, music and wonderful sheets. Do you like to have lots of fun with toys? In that case, fill a box or basket (that has a lid) with a few of your favorite adult toys. Be sure to keep it near your sacred love space so you can reach into it at any time.
If you are a fan of long lasting lovemaking sessions, you might consider adding a small fridge to the room. This way, whenever you guys want a drink or snack, there’s no need to break the mood. You can even plan ahead and fill the fridge with champagne, strawberries and other special treats for a special night of lovemaking.
Create the right mood.
We’ve talked about the décor and the candles, and even adding a fridge and toys. But creating the right mood means keeping everything sacred. That means you think about everything. Is it time to get rid of the picture of your parents that hangs on the wall? Should you consider investing in some fantastic new bedding or even matching furniture? If you want to create that hotel feel, think about what is appealing about a hotel.
Of course, you might not be able to replicate having a maid and no schedule for your day, but you can replicate other desirable aspects of a hotel room, such as matching furniture, cleanliness, and the sense of being away from the world for awhile.
If you create a good retreat, you’ll feel as if you’re getting away without leaving the house. And the feeling of ‘getting away’ is often what makes people feel like they have all the time in the world for making love.
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