Steamy Shower Sex Secrets Revealed
“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” – Carl W. Buechner
The shower is an erotic haven, with warm water, slippery suds and all that steamy heat. It’s like an instant set-up for great sex. The right position might be a tad tricky to master at first (I’ve got lots of tips for you below), but once you’ve got the logistics figured out, her groans and screams will be echoing off the tiled walls.
There are a bevy of stimulating sensations in the shower, which will cut your work in half. So get that water running, get your clothes off, and submerge yourself in the pure enjoyment of steamy shower sex.
Something to lean on
A lot of today’s homes are built with stand-up showers, meaning no bathtub ledge to prop yourself up on. If your partner isn’t flexible enough to rest a leg on your shoulder or have you hold it, then bend her over. If you’re still crammed for space, there are a wide range of shower benches that are sold at most hardware stores (and she’ll love it because it will give her somewhere to sit when she shaves her legs- an added plus!)
Work with the water
Water is not a long-lasting lubricant, but it does allow for easier, smoother caressing, stroking, and movement in general. Let your hands slide up and down her body. Lap the water off her neck and shoulders. Let your tongue suck the water off her breasts.
Also, if you’ve ever been hesitant about giving her oral sex (or she’s had apprehensions about going down on you), or if you’ve been looking for a “safer” venue to experiment with anal stimulation, the flowing, warm water presents a unique opportunity to work with a clean area as well as have the water dilute any natural secretions.
Lather up
Soap is fun for all sorts of reasons – it gives you a great excuse to lather her up and let your hands glide over every square inch of her body, it’s slippery and stimulating, and believe it or not, all those yummy scents that body washes come in can add to the overall steamy shower sex experience.
Give her a good rub down. Wash her hair. Hell, even break out one of those poofy sponges. Don’t leave one inch of her unexplored.
A quick word of warning: Soap should never (ever) go inside of her. When you’re using soap down there, proceed with caution. And for God’s sake, soap is not a lube.
Use the shower head to your advantage
That’s right – a removable shower head is a girl’s best friend. We don’t take long showers because we’re doing facials and exfoliating (although that’s what we tell you) – a removable shower head, especially the ones with multiple settings, are a treat all their own.
So why not take advantage of this bathroom-fixture-slash-sex-toy? First use it to massage her scalp, then slowly move it down her neck, across her shoulders and down the length of her spine. Then ever so gently bring it up between her legs while kissing her. Use it in a back-and-forth or circular motion. Change the settings on the showerhead to create different pulsations. She’ll love the exciting sensations it will create!
It’s warm, wet and fun! And that’s why we women (ahem, I) are such fans of steamy shower sex!
Much love!
Gabrielle Moore
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Techniques To Excite Her (Without Touching Her)
“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it.” – Anonymous
Sex isn’t always about the rubbing and petting – it’s about that connection, at least for us ladies. While it’s true that sex can sometimes be just about the physicality of it all, women find it easier to engage in steamy sex when they feel that they’re connecting with their partner on a higher level. We thrive off of non-verbal cues. A quick wink or sly smile can make our panties wet (it’s the truth!)
Be vocal
Speak up! Tell her what you’re fantasizing about, what you love that she does to you, what you love to do to her. Hearing these devious acts put into actual words can be a major turn-on (just plan on what you’re going to say before you blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. And don’t be too smutty, unless your wife is that kinda gal, like moi!)
Act it out
Feeling turned on? Touch yourself while you catch her gaze across the room. Give her a mischievous wink. Lick or bite your lip ever so slightly.
When I know a guy is turned on just by looking at him, it gets my juices flowing. So don’t be shy to capitalize on these cues.
A naughty message
Busy lives translate into not having a lot of time for foreplay and to build up the momentum. I get that. So why not send your wife a dirty text, email, or even picture? A guy I was seeing once sent me on my phone an up-close shot of his soldier at full attention while I was at work – I don’t have to tell you how quickly I raced home that afternoon!
Go back to basics
Remember when you and your wife were first dating – there was all that lovey dovey stuff, with the hand-holding, the long gazes, the little expressions of affection? We thrive off of that. Try and recall the simple things you would do to get your wife all smitten, like a look across a room, and go back to the basics.
Sometimes, a guy being vulnerable enough to wink at me is the thing that sounds off bells in my head (not to mention elsewhere).
Whisper in her ear
A woman’s ears are highly sensitive to a variety of sensations, so the sound of you quietly relaying a message to her along with the warm feeling of your breath will send shivers down her spine. Afterward, gently blow on her neck. Then, well, brace yourself!
MWAH!
Gabrielle Moore
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8 Quick Opportunities For Quickies
“Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. ‘Yes’ is the answer.” – Swami X
Sex can’t always involve hours of foreplay, passionate caressing, and long, drawn-out sex sessions, especially when you’re married and have a busy family. That’s where quickies find their niche.
Quickies fulfill a very convenient, easy way of enjoying a satisfying release as well as a few moments of unadulterated pleasure. I’m talking about unplanned, spontaneous moments of passion where you and spouse unleash your prowess on one another without a second thought.
A quickie isn’t about being quick on the draw – rather, quickies are mutually fast and rushed form of sex, and it’s a great way to keep your sex life healthy as well as exciting.
Here are some quick opportunities for quickies:
1- You’re at a neighbourhood BBQ and the kids are busy playing with their friends. Ask a neighbour to keep an eye on them while you run home to get your sunglasses. Then, whisk your wife off for a quick sex session in the bedroom, living room, hell even the front hallway – no one’s home anyway!
2- Most people are rushed in the mornings, and since the majority of men wake up and are raring to go, it’s the perfect opportunity for a quick romp. Wake your wife up with a kiss or a “good morning beautiful” and then press yourself up against her so she knows where you’re headed (no pun intended).
3- Social engagements and company dinners can be a major snooze fest. Sneak off with your spouse to a public bathroom stall or even your car and add some much-needed excitement to your evening.
4- Going for a long walk or bike ride on a secluded path can present a unique opportunity for a quickie a la Mother Nature. Take a detour into the woods until you’re out of sight, use a tree for balance, and do the outdoor deed.
5- Movie theatres are surprisingly great spots for quickies – the bathrooms are usually near-empty during show time, and actual theatres are near-empty during crappy flicks, making a risky romp in the back of the dark room all the more possible (and thrilling).
6- Do it in the car. Whether you’re out running errands or returning from a social engagement, find a secluded parking lot, turn off the engine, and take a go at steaming up the windows.
7- When you’re at a house party with a larger crowd of people, it’s easy to slip away for a few moments unnoticed. There are lots of unoccupied rooms for your quickie – just be sure that the door has a lock.
8- Quickies at the office are always rousing. You and your wife know where you can get away with it, and a mid-day romp can be the unexpected excitement a couple needs to spice up their sex lives.
Because quickies are known for their speediness, they only require a very small window of time. Therefore, as long as there’s a will, there’s a way – find that empty closet, private restaurant bathroom, or abandoned parking lot and enjoy one of the simple pleasures of couplehood – the quickie.
Sweet dreams!
Gabrielle Moore
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