My Favorite Role-Playing Games
“I know nothing about sex, because I was always married.” – Zsa Zsa Gabor
Zsa Zsa was exaggerating (kinda)… your sex life can be just as exciting once you’re married as long as you keep things fresh and new in the bedroom. Nothing can kill your libido like redundancy, and one of the best (not to mention fun) ways to spice things up is by engaging in some fanciful role-playing.
There are all kinds of role-playing games out there – some only require your creativity and others entail costumes and props – you can get as wild as you want. Getting into character is all about fantasy, so sky’s the limit.
I present to you, my little pupils, my favorite role-playing games.
Victim/rescuer
It sounds super cliche, but this is a fun one – you could be the fireman and she could be the damsel in distress in the burning building, you could be the lifeguard and she could be the beautiful drowning victim, you could play the cowboy and she could be the sexy cowgirl who needs to be saved from the big, bad town bully… you can don outfits and use props (like lassos) or leave everything to your imagination. Women love to feel like they’re being “saved” by a big, strong man – it’s the classic fantasy. Pick her up and sweep her off to the bedroom, give her mouth-to-mouth to revive her – save her from sexual stagnation for heaven’s sake!
Doctor/patient
I was seeing a guy who was an actual doctor, so it was relatively easy to carry out this role-playing game – he was quite cocky and loved the fact that he was a physician (he also loved it when I’d call him “Doc”), and I didn’t mind letting him explore my body for a “check up.” I especially loved when he gave me a breast exam “for good measure.”
I don’t know what it is about this fantasy but it’s super hot – and you can switch things up by reversing roles – let her play the smutty nurse and you can be the patient who needs an oral exam. Either way, trust me – it will gets your hearts racing, the juices flowing, and you may just need an EKG machine.
Dominator/dominee
When I meet up with my girlfriends and we talk sex, the most commonly shared fantasy amongst them seems to be the dominator/dominee role-playing game. Women like to be both controlled as well as controlling, so this is a great activity because you can take turns. Couples can benefit most from this game if they’ve established a good level of trust – maybe that involved creating certain limits beforehand or having something like a “safe word.” Either way, once there’s mutual understanding, this game can be a lot of fun.
Maybe you want her to perform oral sex on you while you hold her head, you could blindfold her or you could tie her hands to the headboard. And remember: all of these things can be done to you too. Take turns telling each other exactly what it is you want, whether it be for her to touch herself, touch you, or more. Try taking the reins one night and then letting her be in the driver’s seat the next time around.
Hugs,
Gabrielle Moore
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The Best “He’s On Top” Positions
“Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant.” – George Burns
I’m definitely a take-charge woman, but every once and a while, it’s nice to relinquish control and let the man take over. When he’s on top not only is the view fantastic but it’s also a great way to experiment with some fun “he’s-on-top” positions. With the proper configuration, you can align yourselves so you and your spouse can experience maximum pleasure.
Even though you’re on top, the motions and rhythm will still take some effort on both of your parts, so don’t think that this is about making you do all the hard work. With the following positions, you’ll be able to manoeuvre and create tantalizing sensations between the sheets.
Missionary
Missionary may be one of the oldest positions in the book – and its stay-power is because of its effectiveness. Hey, if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.
Missionary is super enjoyable because, at that angle, not only are you penetrating us but the motion also allows for your manhood to rub against our clitoris, creating a double-sensation. Feel free to keep her on her toes by varying your speed of entry.
Now I’m not saying I’d want to do it missionary-style every night of my life, but this move should definitely be in every guy’s arsenal.
Knees to chest missionary
This position takes a tad more dexterity on her part, but the manipulation is worth it! Get into the standard missionary position but have her pull her knees down so they’re against her chest (she can even rest her feet on your shoulders, if she’s flexible enough). If you need to, use a pillow under her bottom to help elevate her. This position is all about deep penetration not to mention the benefits of the missionary pose, adding even more toe-curling excitement to a sex session.
Sideways missionary
Anytime you turn your bodies so that you’re not exactly forward or backward, you create new opportunities to find orgasm-inducing positions. So try this: have your wife lie down on her side and prop one leg up on your shoulder while you’re on your knees, ready to penetrate her (a sideways missionary). It’s a fairly easy position to experiment with and is a great way to get you both fired up.
Downward dog
This is a “flater” version of doggy style, if you will, and involves your wife lying down flat on your stomach while you mount her from behind. The angle is incredible for G-spot stimulation – you’ll have her begging for more.
I’m a huge fan of doggy style, as the position is somewhat naughty and always pleasurable. While you move in and out of her, go slowly at first and then pick up the speed. Be sure to kiss her neck or run your hands down her spine while you do the deed.
Criss-cross
This unique configuration is often overlooked – and shouldn’t be. Have your partner lie down on her back while you lay alongside her – get her to bend her knees and rest both of her feet on your hips while you penetrate her. The tilted angle will create new sensations for both of you – she’ll love the rubbing and the fact you’re hitting a new spot inside of her, while you’ll love the new taught sensations.
Smootch!
Gabrielle Moore
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Get Her To Give You Oral Sex
“Anybody who believes that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach flunked geography.” – Robert Byrne
It’s one of the biggest complaints I hear from guys who are in long-term relationships: “I miss blow jobs.” Giving a guy a BJ is something we do to sexually impress a man, but there are a lot of girls who don’t really like doing this oral deed – they’re uncomfortable having something in their mouth, they’re scared of being “surprised” by an unexpected (and unannounced) mouthful of you-know-what, they’re self-conscious of their skills, or it’s just been too long since they did it and they’ve lost interest. There are plenty of reasons as to why your partner may dismiss oral sex altogether. But there are ways to reignite that oral fixation…
If you want to get her to give you oral sex, heed my advice below.
Ease her into it
If your wife hasn’t suckled on your manhood in some time, don’t think you can get her interested in BJs again but stuffing your over-sized member into her mouth… you need to take baby steps. Begin by asking her to kiss or gently blow on your penis. Then maybe she’ll be comfortable enough to move onto a little suckling of the tip. Let her work her way up gradually to full-on mouth-on-peen contact.
Keep it clean
Nothing is more of a turn-off than an overgrown, stinky mess, so keep everything neat, tidy, and clean. Be sure to trim back the pubes as well as wash with water and soap thoroughly before asking her to go down on you. You’d appreciate the same etiquette, wouldn’t you?
I hooked up with a guy once who had obviously not manscaped in years… let’s just say he missed out on some of the most incredible blow-job skills he’d ever been lucky enough to come close to!
Return the favor
You can’t expect your spouse to give you oral sex if you’re not willing to return the favor. Engage her in a little mouth-on-nether-region action, make her toes curl, and make her want to pleasure you right back. Nothing is sexier than seesawing back and forth orally or, better yet, exploring some 69 excitement. Hey, you scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours (literally)…
No surprises please
As I already mentioned, we ladies hate when you cum in our mouths without any forewarning. Don’t pretend you didn’t see it coming – that’s the oldest (and lamest) excuse in the book. If you want oral sex to be an ongoing component of your sex life, then you have to be courteous – please tell us when you’re about to blow so we can decide whether or not we want to take the impact or not.
Add some flavor
Sometimes women are squeamish about giving blow jobs because they just can’t get past the fact that they’re sucking on a penis. So, disguise it with some flavored oils or creams – cover your member with some sweet cherry lube or warm chocolate to make it all the more appetizing for your other half.
Always yours,
Gabrielle Moore
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