My Favorite (Unexpected) Erogenous Zones
“Bodies do not produce sensations, but complexes of elements (complexes of sensations) make up bodies.” – Ernst Mach
Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a guy who goes straight for the goods – that is, they’re all over the breasts and nether regions. While these are undoubtedly our tried-and-true hotspots, every woman has a few more erogenous zones up her sleeve. For many of us, a little neck kissing and sucking can give us shivers down our entire bodies, and for others, it be the gentle bite of an earlobe that sends out shock waves. The same goes for you – I once ran my tongue ever-so-slowly down the nape of a guy’s neck and he actually lost his load (but luckily for me, and him, it was a triple-header evening).
I’ve been with enough men – and women – (and explored the terrain myself) to know a few secret erogenous zones that, when titillated, immediately makes my toes curl! And it only seemed right to share these with my fellow boys, so here it goes…
Scalp
Kinkier guys and gals love a little hair tugging – some because they like the pain involved in it, but there’s also something to be said about stimulating the scalp. I love making out with a guy and having him run his hands through my hair along my scalp. It send shivers down my spine almost instantly. A good scalp rub is also a major turn-on, so don’t be afraid to get right in there and mess up her hair.
Palms of hands
I was fooling around with a guy once and he kissed the inside of my hands verrrry slowly. I couldn’t get my panties off quickly enough! A man had never given attention to the palms of my hands, and I don’t know if it was the fact that he was thorough enough to find this hidden gem or the sensations that he created that got me more excited, but either way I can tell you, I haven’t forgotten him since (Jonathan).
Wrists
After a night of drinks I wound up in the jeep of this stud I met at a bar and he kissed my wrists – his warm breath on my skin created an instant spark (that burned till sunrise, if I can recall).
Touching this area of my body is only arousing when it’s done tenderly – while being tied up is another exciting form of sex play better kept for another article, the mode you choose to restrain a woman is also a big part of the equation. Cold handcuffs are raw and sexy in their own right, but a pair of (strong) fuzzy cuffs is a wonderful feeling.
Shoulders
You go for the lips, the neck, the breasts, and skip right over the shoulders. Stop neglecting this highly sensitive zone – rub our shoulders, kiss them, even suckle them if you feel so inclined. This may not do it for every woman but it certainly revs me up.
Tops of feet
I’ve always stressed how over-the-moon satisfying foot play can be, and yet so many couples are reluctant to experiment with the tootsies. If you’re not ready to suck on her toes or lick the pads of her feet, ease yourself in by kissing the tops of her feet. The foot has countless nerve endings that can be extremely arousing, so break out of that comfort zone and try hitting this unexpected target.
See ya tomorrow!
Gabrielle Moore
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Unconventional Places To Have Sex
“Sex on television can’t hurt you unless you fall off.” – Author Unknown
Sex in a bed may be the “ideal” setting for a romp (there’s privacy, lots of room, it’s dark…) But as we all know, sometimes the mood strikes us while we’re out at other places, like a dinner party, at the movies, and while we’re with other people. Maybe you’re sick of every-day bedroom-sex and you want to break the mold. I like the way you think – some of my steamiest hookups have been in the most unusual of places, so I thought I should share them with you.
What makes doing the deed in an unusual spot is that it’s so exciting – maybe there’s a danger of being caught, which only adds to the excitement, or perhaps it’s the spontaneity of the act that is getting your juices flowing. Whatever the motive, don’t shrug off sex because it’s not cookie-cutter bedroom sex – get creative and act on your impulses. After all, when there’s a will, there’s a way…
Movie theater
Sometimes, during a matinee or a particularly bad flick, the theater is near-empty, so it’s not difficult to find a quiet dark corner to fool around in. The key here is to practice quiet sex as to not draw the attention of the random people in the theater. If you want to up your chances of getting laid, purposely chose a terrible film, like an international subtitled flick – when she gets bored and you start making your advances, you’ll have her undivided attention (that’s why I always wear a skirt to the movies – easy access!).
Backyard/balcony
My balcony has a huge tree in front of it, which offers a lot of privacy. And, given I have very few neighbors (especially ones who stay up late), surprisingly enough I’ve been able to get away with a lot on that public space. Maybe you and your partner are sick of indoor sex and want to move things outside with Mother Nature – find a way to make it happen. You can always seek out a little nook in the backyard, behind the shed, or between the houses for a quickie. The same goes for a well-hidden balcony like mine. You’ll be surprised at how some fresh air can really heighten the sensations.
A closet
If you find yourself pining for your spouse at a public party, check out the closets. Bathrooms can work too but you don’t want to necessarily hold up the one restroom and then exit with your girl in tow (kinda obvious, no?) But no one is checking the closets during a dinner party (except for the coat closet – this should not be an option unless you want to get caught). Bedroom or linen closets offer darkness, privacy, and the ideal setting for sex.
On the roof
Yep, I was once at a birthday party with friends and snuck up to the apartment roof with my partner – it was a warm summer night, no one could see us, and we went at it like two animals. It was incredibly sexy. You can usually find rooftop areas of apartments or restaurants and hotels, the views are amazing, and your groans can echo off the buildings around you.
The office
A lot of people have keys to their offices, so if you’re out somewhere and can’t control your urges, and you’re closer to work than you are home, stop by the office for some corporate desk-humping. Maybe there’s a sexy leather couch in the reception area or a huge table in the conference room.
I was out with an ex-boyfriend and he took me to his office for a quickie. We passionately swept everything off his desk and did the deed on his desk calendar. It was such a turn-on thinking about him returning to his office Monday morning to see the scattered mess and thinking of our exciting romp.
Always thinking of you!
Gabrielle Moore
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Incredible Fingering Techniques
“The natural man has only two primal passions, to get and beget.” – William Osler
OK, I can’t deny that I love the penis, but there’s still something to be said about a guy with incredible fingering techniques. It’s no secret that women crave foreplay, and fingering is just about the most exciting warm-up exercise out there. A guy who knows how to use his hands (and fingers) is like finding the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow – when he zeroes in on all the right hotspots to get me wet and bothered, I know I always want to return the favor.
The main thing to remember when fingering a woman is to keep her on her toes – stick to one technique as long as she’s enjoying it (groaning, blushing, etc.), but if you’re not getting the desired reaction, move on to the next modus operandi.
So here are some incredible fingering techniques that will have your girl begging for more.
Long, slow strokes
It’s not a race – using your fingers to pleasure a woman involves a little bit of time and patience. So use your first two fingers to rub up and down the entire length of her vagina (avoid fingering her anus, for now, as once you go for the behind you can’t go back to the hoo-ha – it can cause infections). While you’re busy stroking her with one hand, be sure to keep the other one busy by fondling her breasts, rubbing her thighs, or touching her face while you passionately kiss her. This method should get her ultra-wet and ready for sex.
Cum hither
You know that motion you do with your finger when you tell someone to “come here”? Well, try that similar move with your pointer finger on her clitoris or, better yet, inside of her. Externally, the flick of the tip of your finger against her clit will make her toes curl… but only for a certain amount of time. After several strokes we may cum and suddenly find the sensation ticklish or even bothersome, so if she’s twitching or seems uncomfortable, move on.
If you want to really drive her wild, insert your first two fingers, palm facing upward, and do the same “come here” technique – this move will stimulate her G-spot and will really excite her. Use a variety of “speeds” with your fingers to create different levels of pleasure.
The figure 8
The figure 8 is a great one (and it’s something we discuss in my book “Turn Her On Faster”). It’s exactly as it sounds – you use your fingers to trace the number “eight” over her nether regions. The whirly-swirly motion over her clitoris or even the opening of her vagina is a tried-and-true way of getting your spouse turned on (trust me – I use it on myself often).
A mix-up
Why not add even more to the equation? I’m talking about your mouth and your tongue – oral play with finger play. It’s the perfect combination of sensations – the warm, soft wetness of your tongue down there coupled with the feeling of having something harder like your fingers inside of her will make her squeal in delight.
Lovings!
Gabrielle Moore
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