REAL LIFE ISSUE: What to Do if Your Member is Too Small
Do you think that your member is too small? If so, that can be a challenge because nearly everything in our culture tells you that your manhood is directly proportional to the size of your penis.
Thankfully, if you ask most women, they are more interested in what you are going to do with it than how large it is. Even if you are well under the six-inch average, you can still have a perfectly satisfying sex life, and there are plenty of choices on what to do if your member is too small.
Remember the Foreplay
Like anything, do the best with what you have got. Here is the thing. There is a whole lot that you can do to establish yourself as a fantastic lover before you get anywhere near needing to use your penis in your love making. If you remember that having sex starts with foreplay, you are golden. Women will love the fact that you drive them right to the edge of ecstasy before you even enter them, and they will brand you a generous lover.
Build Sexual Expertise in Other Areas…
You might want to take it upon yourself to build skills in areas where you are not below average. For example, there is nothing keeping you from being the most amazing lover when it comes to oral sex.
Oral sex begins with the mouth, continues to the ear, travels to the neck, descends to the breasts and lingers there a while. You can explore all of the erogenous zones of a woman’s body on your way to your orgasm destination, the clitoris.
By taking your time to get to her hot button, you allow anticipation to build, which further excites. You can even bring your partner to orgasm before you even enter her, and then she can take a turn in the oral department. At this point your woman is probably pretty thrilled that you are not too huge, and you should be too. You will fit into her mouth more easily for a swirl than if you were over endowed. Glance skyward and be grateful for the small blessings (pun intended) in life.
Just about when you cannot stand it any more give yourself a break and switch positions. Now you can bring up her excitement level and you may even be able to work in another orgasm for good measure. However, you do not want to go overboard here. While some women can go crazy with orgasms, others are exhausted after several. So know your woman before you get too carried away here.
Then when you are ready to slip inside her you have an additional arsenal at your disposal. Different sexual positions place you deeper in your partner than other positions, while other positions allow for amazing clitoris stimulation. Either way, your partner will have no complaints.
Be ready to experiment with different positions to see which ones work the best for both of you. Whether it is doggie style, standing, sitting, with her on top or plain old missionary style, you will find the positions that are the most effective for you and your partner if you take the time to try them.
So, while our world may talk the talk about the importance of being well endowed, if you develop your skills as a caring and sensitive lover, you may be surprised to find out, that you are actually a very well endowed lover yourself.
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