FOUR Reasons to Engage in Sexual Role-Playing
When you first started dating your girlfriend, you were smitten by her. Maybe she fell for you right away, or maybe you had to convince her to give you a chance; but either way here you are – still together. While “still together” is a good thing, it is not without its challenges. The first time that you were intimate with each other you may have been nervous, or you may have been very self-confident. However you felt inside, you were most likely doing your very best to project an image of being a Casanova. And look at that, you were already engaged in sexual role-playing.
Familiarity Breeds Boredom
Well guess what? So was your girlfriend. And for a time these new roles were exciting, and you looked forward to stepping into them every chance you could get. Think back as you discovered each other’s pleasures as your sexual roles became more and more familiar, and this familiarity was actually quite fine. Actually it was your anchor, and this gave you the confidence to keep exploring, because there were still so many new things about each other’s bodies that you had yet to discover. But over time you have done your exploration, and you are as familiar with her body as you are with your own.
As your sexual roles become second nature, somehow your sexual experiences may be losing a little of their edge or excitement. The nervous anticipation is gone, and along with it went some of the thrill and maybe even some of the playfulness of your sexual experience together. But you are in luck, because it is easy to recreate that wonderful sexual tension that you found when you first started having sex.
Role-
Playing Builds Intimate Bonds
Frequently the thought of role playing in your sex life conjures up visions of costumes and paraphernalia, and while that is certainly an option sexual role-play can be so much simpler than that. If you or your partner is self-conscious about role playing, then there is a good chance that you are also at least a little self conscious about having sex in the first place. Sexual role-playing can be a great way to build a bond with your partner, lose some inhibitions and have a great time doing it.
Having sex is the most private of moments and at the same time you are sharing it with your partner. Everyone brings their different inhibitions and preferences with them to the experience, so sexual role-playing is a way to pull that that sexual information out of the bag. It can also be a way to rip lose and indulge your most creative fantasies. The important thing about this experience is that you should be comfortable with the roles that you choose. You want to gradually stretch the bounds of your imagination, not shatter them.
Role-
Playing Helps Lose Sexual Inhibitions
If you are a little shy, or maybe even feel a little silly with role-playing in the bedroom, just start with something simple. For example, consider just reversing roles. If you are generally the more dominant lover, then let your partner take the lead. If you play the role well, you will have to be attentive to her cues and follow her lead. While it does not sound like much of a change, you will be surprised at how different your sexual experience will be.
Role-Playing Builds Confidence
Then as you each gain confidence in your role-playing abilities, branch out to other familiar scenarios. Remember that this is not your Emmy award winning acting debut; you are simply having fun with your partner in the bedroom. You are having a sexual adventure together. You adventure can be as basic or elaborate as you wish. You can simply make up situations and run with them, or you can introduce costumes, wigs and props into your adventure. You can literally be anyone that you want to be, and you will be surprised that the most ordinary situations become titillating when wrapped in a sexual undertone.
Four Ideas to Begin the Game
Here are some ideas for you to consider as both, you and your partner, decide where your sexual role-playing will take you.
• Boss and Employee – Role-playing is exciting when you are breaking the rules and being a little “naughty”. In the workplace there is a very clear line between boss and employee that can never be crossed, or can it? Well that is what you will discover in your role playing romp.
• Doctor and Patient – Another societal taboo is crossing the line in a doctor and patient relationship. A doctor is always supposed to be professional, but even doctors can only withstand so much temptation before something gives. After all they are only human you know.
• Professor and Student – Yet another one of society’s forbidden zones makes for an tantalizing adventure. In any of the forbidden combinations, the element of being discovered fills the air with sexual tension.
• Stripper and Customer – Along with social taboos are situations that are very one-sided making one partner practice restraint until the sexual tension is ready to literally explode. For example, whichever partner chooses to be the stripper will insist that the customer follow all of the “club” rules, and while you can look all you want, as the customer you may not touch. The stripper of course is absolutely allowed to touch, and you can take it from there.
There is no right or wrong subject, and you do not have to stay in character the whole time that you are having sex. Simply use sexual role-playing to keep the playful spark alive in your sex lives, and most of all remember to have fun!
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