Sex Mistakes to Avoid

As time goes on, you and your partner probably fall into a certain, comfortable routine not just in your daily lives but also in the romance and sex department. It’s now time to bust those routines. Why? Anything that’s done over and over will make you sort of immune to it. So why not deliberately decide to ALWAYS make each other sexually aroused even with the tiniest of gestures?

Sex mistakes to avoid.
Prevent these SIX Sex Mistakes

Mistake #1: You initiate sex the same way all the time.
How to break the habit: Do not wait till it’s ‘around bedtime’ to initiate sex. Anytime you feel a tad horny, just act on it! If you really don’t have time for it, have a quickie! It’s exciting and the fact that sex can happen anytime, anywhere is downright thrilling.

Mistake #2: Sex is a race to an orgasm.
How to break the habit: Think about the last couple of times you guys made love? How long did that last? And – be honest now – what moves did you make? You’ll probably be surprised to know that you’ve been doing the same moves, in the same sequence, the last couple of times. And guess what? She’s been reacting in the exact same way too.

So tonight, banish your sex routine and be experimental again. For instance, if you’ve NEVER kissed or licked her backside, do it tonight. This is something that will make her hairs rise on end! And chances are, instead of her being ‘outraged’ by your move, she’ll turn into this wild sexual animal you’ve never had in bed before.

Mistake #3: Sex should always take place in the bedroom.
How to break the habit: The easiest way to break this habit is to START foreplay elsewhere. For instance, why not fool around in the living room with the intention of ‘doing it’ right there on top of the coffee table? You can also try this: just when she’s getting ready for bed brushing her teeth in the bathroom, fool around and have sex right there on the bathroom counter, making sure that she sees you going in and out of her via the bathroom mirror!

Mistake #4: You feel the need to take the lead all the time.
How to break the habit: Tonight, tie her up! Ok, that sounds brutal so let me phrase it better… grab a silk scarf or tie or even just a big handkerchief and loosely tie her hands together. Now sit back and in a very low tone, ask her to undress you with her mouth. You’ll be surprised at how ingenious she can be if you encourage her to make the move.

And don’t just stop with undressing, after she accomplishes that, ask her what she wants. You can tell her to sit on your face so she can control the movement for oral sex. If you guys always finish off in the missionary position, ask her to go woman on top all the way!

Mistake #5: You think that if you show ‘roughness’ in bed, she’ll break.
How to break the habit: Tonight, DON’T be a gentle partner, be a hot lover. For starters, talk dirty. Men think that if they do this, they are turning women off or that their partners think they’re crass. Guess what, many women would actually talk dirtily back!
Also, be a more daring in the sex position department. This does not mean bondage or anal sex right away. Just be a bit raunchier. For instance, never slapped her bum before, smack it tonight! Bit timid licking her down there before, show her you can be one hungry lapping dog!

Mistake #6: You don’t hug her after sex!
How to break the habit: After you reach your orgasms tonight, and you don’t feel like hugging or cuddling because it’s just too darn warn between the sheets, at least face each other so you can see eye-to-eye. (The problem with most men is they get up immediately and go to the bathroom; or worse, to the refrigerator for a snack and drink.) So face each other and gently touch her hair with your hand. You don’t even need to say anything. Just connect.

Enjoy yourselves!

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19 Responses to “Sex Mistakes to Avoid”

  1. loverboyNo Gravatar Says:

    Hey Gaby you are just awesome. My wife and I practice a lot of what you detail in your newsletters and that’s one of the reasons why we have such a great marriage – ‘amazing sex life’. In bed she is my horny ‘lil slut and I am her fucker. We never wear panties at home and often while she’s cooking I’ll reach under her nightie, insert two fingers into her clean shaven swollen wet pussy and lick. You can imagine the kind of sex we have with this kind of foreplay.
    YOUR TIPS ARE LIKE A REMINDER FOR ME. She’ll always ask me “darling, what new tricks have you learnt”.
    Suggestion: Why don’t you bring out a separate issue on Dirty Talk ‘cos its so powerful

  2. BobNo Gravatar Says:

    Great ideas. I’ll try some of them tonight, or should i say this afternoon. Thanks again for the advice.

  3. MARTYNNo Gravatar Says:

    very educational and excitingly intriguing!!!!!!!!!!!

  4. MbuguaNo Gravatar Says:

    Good stuff… eye opening,,,thanks a million!!

  5. AnmeNo Gravatar Says:

    Amazing Thinking…
    do it guys … its working…. Really
    your partner must want you for a hot sex.

  6. GiddyNo Gravatar Says:

    its such an educative website. congrats.

  7. Tapan DixitNo Gravatar Says:

    It’s so nice & helpful for private life
    thanks
    Tapandixit

  8. vidaNo Gravatar Says:

    thanks gabi will learn frome this mistakes and not do them so my partner will love sex where ever and when ever thaks alot.

  9. JohnNo Gravatar Says:

    #7 No matter HOW good you feel during sex, never, EVER scream your former girlfriends’ (or worse, her current roomates’) NAME during climax!

  10. Paul M.No Gravatar Says:

    These are great ideas for not making the mistakes that will kill your pleasure together. I have something i do with my wife after we make love. Instead of finishing and rolling over, I will pull out and then give her more pleasure. I will do something else to continue her sexual experience so I can stay active with her to, can we say “reload”. I will give her unbelevable oral, give an erotic body massage or pull out one of the several adult toys we have and drive her crazy with that. Usually I will do something like this for about 20 minutes or so and I will be hard again and we will both be ready to make love longer and harder than the first time. My wife loves it and she end up being satisfied with a sexual session of an hour or more. It is really erotic knowing that I can pleasure my wife with constant sexual activity she enjoys for nice long sexual sessions!

  11. BOBNo Gravatar Says:

    I HAVE BEEN DOING THOSES MOVES FOR YEARS I AM A ROMANTIC MAN SIGN OF THE SCORPIO THE BEST LOVER INTHE WORLD

  12. UgochukwuNo Gravatar Says:

    Sweet set of instructions. Been a long time i had sex with my girl friend(like a year now). We have been in different parts of the world thats why but will try out these “smooth criminal” moves when next we meet.

    thanks very much for your invaluable tips.

    U keep the battery going.

  13. LAL THOMASNo Gravatar Says:

    good and nice [ractical

  14. OrlandoNo Gravatar Says:

    Very inpressive statements, I agree we men have made many mistakes thinking as we get satisfied it is over, or if a woman don’t complain, all is well because she must be satisfied.
    I have also known women to fake orgasm with me a few times, they way they did it was obvious, and i know they were faking it.
    It was depressing, as if saying please get it over with quickly.

  15. johnNo Gravatar Says:

    thank u my dear gaby , this msg realy help to improve and change my though .
    regards john

  16. tjoeNo Gravatar Says:

    I am turned on..and I am a women:)

  17. bwaNo Gravatar Says:

    Just keep it up. We appreciate your good job.

  18. mokayaNo Gravatar Says:

    Thank you Gab for your wonderful educative msg

  19. ganmichNo Gravatar Says:

    Yummie stuff, Gaby Baby!!!!!

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