Sexual Fantasies: How to Make Them a Reality and When Not To
Sexual fantasies are normal for all of us no matter how much the term may make your eyes roll back into your head! We all do it, so why keep denying it?
Top 10 Sexual Fantasies of Men
You may think that you’re the only guy in the world who fantasizes about getting’ it on with your friend’s mom or getting spanked by her, but the truth is; you’re not! You’d be surprised to know what some of the most common fantasies are.
Your sexual fantasies don’t decide whether or not you’re some sick sexual deviant! They’re normal and healthy and something that really is enjoyed by everyone regardless of sex or age. If you’re curious to know what others are fantasizing about, then check out this list of the known Top 10 fantasies of men. Now you can really see how ‘normal’ you actually are!
1. Sex with your current partner.
2. Sex with a woman other than your girlfriend or wife.
3. Oral sex –giving and/or receiving.
4. A Threesome, foursome or moresome.
5. Being watched while having sex or watching someone else have sex.
6. Having your girl masturbate in front of you.
7. Anal sex.
8. Bondage or BDSM.
9. Taking someone by force (ravaging or raping).
10. Forcing someone else to have sex with your wife or girlfriend (in front of you)
Making Your Sexual Fantasies Happen
Not all fantasies make good real life experiences. As hot as having a threesome may be, you need to consider your partner and weigh the pros and cons of reality, like the fact that convincing her to go along with it may be fun while you’re having the three-way but could also lead to the end of your relationship since the jealousy factor is almost always a possibility no matter how into it you may both be.
And while we’re on the subject of threesomes; trying to get your girl to go along with it also comes with the risk of her requesting to have a threesome with you, her and some other guy. Is that something that you’re prepared for? Tit for tat could very well be expected if she agrees to be a part of YOUR fantasy come-true.
If you want to make some of your fantasies a reality, then you’ll also need to consider a few other things, like: your partner’s feelings if you’re in a relationship, who will willingly participate and what risks might be involved.
You may think the idea of group sex is hot, but do you have a group of people that you can go experiment with while being discreet and safe? You may get all hard at the idea of bondage, but BDSM can be scary for some people and a real turn-off so you’ll need to really talk to your partner and make sure that your trust is in tact before giving it a go.
As for sex in public or taking someone by force; you really need to consider the legal ramifications! Yeah, I said legal! Sex in front of an unwilling audience could lead to a public indecency or misdemeanor charge and as for living out a rape fantasy with the wrong person; you could wind up in jail for a long time! (‘No’ may really mean ‘no’ when you’re in the midst of what YOU think is some hot role-playing!)
Pick your fantasies and participants very carefully before you head off to make them a reality. Don’t get me wrong; sexual fantasies can be great in real life too, but there are some that may be best left in your head for you to enjoy during a self-pleasure fest, sex or on the commute to work. You just never know when one may come back and bite you in the ass after the orgasm-induced daze has worn off, so tread carefully my friend.
Now my friend… it’s your turn. 
Will you share your naughtiest fantasies with me? Just complete the form below (the one that says “Leave a Comment”) and share with me the FANTASIES that you have never shared with anyone.
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Tom
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I’ve got an amazing wife and lived most of my sexual fantasies. My wife fucked me in the parking of her attorney when she was in the process of getting her divorce. She also gave me a blow job to orgasm on a commerical airplane with a close friend of ours one row ahead. Thank god for airline blankets.
My wife and I are having amazing sex recently. My current fantasy is to get her to allow us to be video-taped in a long set of sexual activites with many positions and including oral sex. My wife even suggested at dinner last Saturday that we should video-tape oursleves fucking so that if either one of us died we could masterbate to the video and remember the good times.
I’m going to find a way to do that.
Kevin Henderson
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i would like to make any woman squirt when she cums
Keith
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We have done many already and have been fantastic! At a lifestyle party, I want to see my wife on the dance floor, pull down her thong to every guy she desires and let each one enjoy her pussy right there with each one and then have them all come to our hotel room and they all cum all over her!! She loves cum play!
ivan
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I have always fantasised about my partner being Bi curious and going behind my back to sleep with another woman, all of it caught on a tape that i later find.
Johnnie
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In addition to having two lesbians kissing near my lips, my second fantasy is having a beautiful woman chew food and then pass it from her mouth to mine.
William
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I’m pretty average when it comes to fantasies I guess. Most guys would probably like to have a threesome (FFM). It is lots of fun, and I recommend it for any man or woman. I recently had a foursome with three very lovely ladies, and I found it to be incredible. Nobody wants for attention, and the possibilities are endless.
I can say the first threesome I was in was a learning experience, and it helped my sexual skills immensely. We talked at length afterward, and the women were very open about their previous encounters. I’ve found it common with all the women I’ve shared a similar encounter with.
The only threesomes they have disliked are the ones with two men. Apparently, none of them had been with men who were bi-sexual, and while they liked the feeling of power it gave them at first they didn’t like how they were the total focus of all the activity. Of course they had all been in FFM threesomes prior to that, and so I feel the experience may just suffer some from the comparison.
Jay
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I have always wanted my wife to play with herself in front of me. But she won’t do it, I some times will see her start to but if she sees me watching, she will stop. I have asked my wife what her fantasies were and she says she has none.
Robert
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I have always wanted to watch 2 women make love then invite me to join them in the oral fun
nichole
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i have a fantasy about good rape, you know, the kind thats makes the men gently throw you around a little, and it being secretive. like in books, gentle love that makes one break out in goosebumps. and steamy, too. tounging i havent had but a little, though
ali mazin
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finally,i get the most my prefferd thing in sex…the 69 position! it was a pritty surprise from my wife.
she still refused to do it since tow years of our marrage,finally she accepted it “after seeng ahot movie “….and she gave me a very nice oral sex and jerk off experiance…
Mark Denunzio
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…watching my wife being spanked by another woman…(bareass)…hot!!!
Manny
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My fantasy is with a friend of mine. we are having good vaginal sex but I would like to enjoy anal sex with her. I brought it to the conversation one day and she said she didn’t like the idea because she thinks it hurts too much. I said that depends on who would do it to you.
John
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My wife and I recently went to a comedy club and saw a stage hypnosis demonstration. In the demo, besides getting some big, burly biker dude to prance around like a ballerina, he also managed to get two cute female audience members volunteer to come up on stage. With a few calming words and a snap of his fingers, he had these two hot girls making out with one another on stage and getting hotter and hotter! Two total strangers from the audience started taking off each others jackets and necking with each other in front of us at his command! Of course, before they went too far, the hypnotist snapped his fingers and stopped them before things really got out of hand, and they completely ravished one another!
And the whole time I was just sitting there thinking, ‘how cool was that??’ Afterwards, he snapped his fingers and neither one remembered a thing! ‘Awsome!
I immediately began feverishly reading up on and researching hypnosis and subliminal suggestions to get my hot red-headed wife Dawn and her cute little brunette girlfriend, Aimee, to make out at my command.
Unfortunately folks, the sad reality is that in my research I discovered that stage hypnosis is just that…’staged’ The biker ballerina dude and the two girls who supposedly never met before and were making out on stage were all actors and actresses, all ‘in on’ the performance. The sad fact is, hypnosis is simply a state of deep relaxation. The subjects can answer questions and relive memories. But hypnosis can not make anybody do anything that they wouldn’t ordinarily want to do. And any real hypnotist knows that a suggestion to two straight girls to suddenly start making love to one another would simply snap them out of the trance.
So, sadly, my ultimate fantasy seeing Aimee and Dawn making love at my command will have to remain just that… a fantasy.
So once again, the girl-girl fantasy tops the list, but mine is a little different. I particularly liked the ‘total control’ aspect! Even though through hypnosis, it really couldn’t happen.
Jessica
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My fantasy is to go to Amsterdam with my boyfriend
Watch a peepshow of a girl playing and dancing while i sit on his lap facing the glass . My elbows would would be on a counter in front of the glass with my headd in my hands . While my boyfriend pulls up my short skirt pulls over my panties and enters me deep. He watched the show with his head resting on my shoulder and i can rock with him inside me . His hands are cupping my tits and pinching my nipples .The girl in the peepshow is also having her own little show as she know what is going on but cannot see only have her own fantasy mmmmmmm
Mickeal
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I would like to go on a vacation with another couple and trade partners for the hole time . stay in same room so we could see and hear each other giving and reseiving pleasure from another I would love to watch my wife give another man oral while his wife is doing me
jaymes
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schoolgirl, need i say more? short skirt, school shirt, tie and chewing gum, tied back hair and bad ass attitude and wants a fuck, ive done it once with my girl, but im getting it again on my bday which is in december, this month =]=]
Ben
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My fantasies are to recieve the best blowjob and have sex with a woman on top.
Lisa
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I have never been with another woman but the thought arouses me. In my fantasy I would like my boyfriend to tie me up and blindfold me and take me to a unknown location where I am placed on a bed and tied to the bed post, legs spred wide. Having my pussy eaten out while blindfolded only to have it removed half way through and seeing that it is not my boyfriend giving me oral pleasure but a woman and my boyfriend is watching and masterbating while this woman makes me cum time and time again after which I am untied and give her the same pleasure while my boyfriend is fucking me.
Chris
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My fantasy involves a mother and daughter (legal age mind you!). Mom and I have a very sensuous relationship and one day she asks if her daughter might join us. She doesn’t have to ask twice!! The daughter walks in on us “petting” on the sofa and we take it from there.
Ahhhhh!
john
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My regular fantasy is to make love to my friend’s 18 y.o. daughter.She has pert breasts and looks so desirable in her short dres and black stockings.
savitry
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Hi there, i always fantasise my girlfriend moaning and screaming from an orgasm, but she doesn’t, all that she says is STOPPP!!!AND OH GODDD!!! but very quietly in my ears, not to mention she is a darn good fucker.
Really Brian
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I have a very vivid imagination, I may have a fantasy for a while but it will happen eventually because that’s the way I do it.
Right now I want a specific threesome, mother and daughter where the daughter is going to have to be held by her mom, the moms all for it but the daughter is playfully a little reluctant and it is probably going to end up well planned and will involve some restraints lol. It’s just a matter of time, till I find or create the right situation.
Mike
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I always fantasie about anal sex with my partner, fucking a married woman,get a threesome with 2 sisters, being watched by her mother while having sex with a girl 18 y.o.
Jay
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I’ve always fantasized about me being home by myself and then all of a sudden, my girl walks into my bedroom wearing a sexy schoolgirl oufit and holding handcuffs, etc. while saying, “J, I’ve been a naughty girl. What are you gonna do to me?” Then I would handcuff her to my bed and fuck her really hard. In my fantasy, she would always end the night by giving me great oral sex.
I have asked her about this, and every time she says, “I thought that our sex life was already good how it is? Why would you want to experiment? Because it could make our sex worse.” So I’m pretty sure that she’ll never go for it unless she comes up with an adventurous side.
stan
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i have a fantasy about anal sex with my wife , i dont know how to approach this
drufen
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i like tying our feet together and then going in from behind,also watching lesbos go at it
scoe
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Do you know what i think about a lot is to have sex with a kind of middle age women lady
Al
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My favorite fantasy is an mfm threesome. Lots of oral everyway imaginable and for a grande finale, DP with both cocks in her pussy. I don’t know if this is even possible, but it sure makes a good fantasy.
rogelio
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i agree with 1 through 9 but not #10 i would never like me girl to have sex with other guy that is not me
Patience Melissa
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I fantasize about my giving my boyfriend incredible blowjob swalling all hi scum all the while he is using his vibrator on me by anally stimulating me to orgasm, this all being performed in front of mirror so we each both get to watch and relive th moment on video again and again for endless reviewing later on
Eugene
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I have alway wonted to wake up in bed with a Beautifull Blond next to me. and she would start teasen me to start off,and then I wake up and she tells me that she is mine for the for the week to do with what ever my wildest fantasy are and she would come back or call me by phone any time I need her. to bust up my sext drive and teach me more thing to do with my wife or even join in if we would like. and that sould Great to me!
I had a blond take me and have sex with her on a pool table at my work after the bar closed. and my boss walkes in and tells me to lock up when im done. my boss was understanding. and I see the blond every once in a while. that was 26 yrs ago.
Eugene
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Gabrielle one other fantasy that I have had for some time is to have some HOT and WILD SEX with you. the Beautifull Women that you are. for the next 1 or 2 weeks. just you and me…..
zack
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FANTASIZE ON SWAPING WIVES WITH A FRIEND IN THE SAME ROOM WITH LIGHTS ON.AND ALSO HAVING ANAL WITH MY WIFE.MMMMMM.
Doug
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I want to give a great women a mindblowing, headboard-rattling orgasms; then have her on top. …and have her lust after me from then on… be dripping wet…
John
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Hi. I have a lot of fantasies. Some are related to weight loss, and I have a theory that as sex is a really safe and effective form of exercise as well as being a wonderful fun activity, it would be good to do it really early in the day to get the metabolism up. My main fantasy is that I could get my partner to agree that whoever wakes up first would initiate sex with the other, so that you would wake up having sex every day.
Another fantasy involves a weight loss group that I go to, where most of the other members are women. Some of them are very sexy ladies, who like me need to lose a few pounds. I fantasize that several of these ladies would find me attractive enough to have a regular sexual “workout”. I go on to imagine that they would come to know about the others and to agree to share me with each other, maybe having regular days of the week with some of them, threesomes, parties, and so on.
another fantasy is meeting a fairly dedicated couple of Bi-women in a lesbian relationship taht would like to find a man to share.
many of my fantasies involve oral sex. I have a nominally unusual ability to roll the edges of my tongue so that the sides meet at the top, forming a tube of sorts. The opening when I do this is amazingly just about the size of a woman’s clitoris. It would allow me to suck, blow, or hum directly on the clit, as well as a number of other possibly unusual techniques. Supposedly half the population have some of this ability. Anyway, I’d really like to meet someone who would want to do a 69. I’d like to make a woman come with my cock in her mouth.
Another fantasy is to do sexual meditation. We would get into a comfortable mutual sitting position, and synchronize the stroke and our breathing, one stroke to one breath, very slow and comfortable, while focusing the mind on the other person.
James
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Hello Gabrielle; I just have to tell this fantasy story.I have a huge walkin shower with 4 shower heads in my house. I came home from the gym one evening and my girlfriend was at home with one of her hot friends. This was one of those days that I really felt like taking a long hot shower and needed a really good full body scrub with lots and lots of creamy lather.I am quite used to leaving my bedroom door open while showering not thinking there was a guest in the house. To make a lomg story short; I got caught lathering myself up by my Girlfried; who thought it was quite erotic and asked if she could join me.I said sure why not. After she stepped into the shower; I told her that I fell bad for her friend and jokingly said she can join us if she wants.To make the story a little shorter; the 3 of us were standing in the shower.I asked my girlfriend if its ok to wash her body. She said that would be nice. So I put a huge amount of bodywash on the shower pouf and lathered her body all over; by this time I was very aroused and Her friend wanted the same treatment.All three of us became sooooo wet and horny it was almost unbearable. It was the best threesome and orgasium I have ever had.As I like lots of lather in the shower; I have fantasized about this many times. Any sugestions on bodywash. Thank you.
ahmed
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i don’t know why my ultimate fantasy includes a 40 years old woman , ofcourse she is hot , experienced , and naughty!! and most important : she is starving!!
and anal sex for sure!!
Paul
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Hi my name is Paul
BOBBY
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I HAVE A WANTED TO HELP A WOMAN GIVE ORAL SEX TO HER MAN
rick
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My fantasy involves twins, how I’m fasinated by twins(I am married to twins) my wife and her sister are identical twins I’ve been with them for some 40 years and how I fantasize about them, always the same one fucks me one sucks me then we reverse it I eat one she eats her sister this just keeps going I almost had it happen but had no balls wish I could relive my youth I would make this happen
glen
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my continuous fantasy is to go down on my friend’s 18y.o. daughter and for her to respond by having oral sex with me.she is such a turn in her black dress and stockings and i love to watch her when she is working in her shop and get very excited when she looks to see if i am watching her.
Keith
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I would like for my wife to squirt but she doesn’t. A threesome, FFM. I would watch my wife and another woman kiss, fondle, nipple play, take turns going down on each other, and going down on each other at the same time. One would suck on my cock as I eat the other. Switch. Fuck one, eat the other. Switch. Cum. Watch the other eat my wife as I eat the licker. Then while my wife has her pussy licked she could suck me hard to fuck the other one. She could continue eating my cum from my wife’s pussy as I fuck her from behind. Both are dreams.
I have tied my wife to a massage table-flat and bent over. Used toys, tongue, and fingers. She enjoyed it. As a matter of fact she has requested it several times. Oral sex more, giving and receiving. Having somebody watch us have sex. Watching my wife masturbate is great, only more often. More anal sex. She enjoys it sometimes.
My wife has a fantasy of a masked “stranger” having his way and forcing her to submit to his “demands”. Unfortunately the noises required might bring the kids to our door.
One afternoon the kids were gone. My wife disappeared. Returned in heels, a short skirt, and an old work shirt. That was all. Walked into the den, grabbed my hand and led me to the bedroom. After some hard kissing I ripped off the shirt. Buttons flew. Pushed her on the bed, pushed up her skirt, and ate her very wet pussy. Pulled her up to sit, kissed her hard, pushed her back. Standing at the side of the bed, I lifted her legs over my shoulders, watched as she fondled her tits, and I fucked the hell out of her.
kirk
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I am visually impaired. I love having a woman munch on my dick with her teeth. So my fantasy is for her to cover my face with her pussy until one of us climax. So far I have not been able to achieve this because my date’s jaw always tires out. I’ll bet none of you can believe that a guy can actually enjoy having his dick bitten.
John
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My fantasy involves three women that I would love to please all of them orally by having all of them laying down on each others back as I eat all thier pussies at the same time hopefully making all them cum at the same time.
Ken
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Me and my wife had sex on our deck near street level while cars were passing by.We were going at it pretty hard and fast so the excitement of being watched was a real turn on.About ten minutes later I had the best release of my life, and the kicker was that we lived in a duplex where our next door neighbours who shared the same entrance could have caught us going at it any time at all.
glen
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today’s fantasy involves my friend’s daughter.i take her gently from behind,lift her black dress,take down her tights and enter her moist,tight pussy.