SIX Tips to Bring VARIETY in the Bedroom

As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one!

So, how do you go about bringing variety inside the bedroom? Check out our Top 10 list below.

Sex up your bedroom.

Hot Ideas to Bring Change and Excitement in Your Bedroom

1. Change the décor!
How long have you guys been keeping those cream-colored curtains? How long have you both been starting at that peeling edge of wallpaper? Sex is pretty much a mental thing and a drab bedroom does not shout SEXY doesn’t it? So the first thing on your list should be to make changes in your bedroom to make it HOT.

The changes will depend on your budget but even if you have a tight one, it’s definitely possible to make a few new hot changes. For instance, get rid of CLUTTER. Children’s toys (and clothes, and diapers, etc.) are also a no-no in the bedroom.

If you want to go all out, all the better! Discuss with your partner items like color schemes and fabric choices. For instance, ditch the cream colored curtains and go for fiery red! Ditch the cotton bed sheets and go for silk! Lastly, adorn your bedroom with lots of good, sexy lighting and scented candles.

2. Bring in the adult literature.
Stack up on your favorite adult literature in the bedroom. Realize that you and your partner are adults in an adult relationship so these things should not be shunned in some locked drawer somewhere. Ok, maybe still locked if you have kids but it should not be something kept secret from your lover.

At night, just before you go to sleep, grab your copy of Playboy as she turns and grabs her copy of GQ. After a few minutes, don’t be surprised that you guys are so hot that you turn and grab each other!

3. Set a glass bowl of naughty ideas.
Set a big glass bowl (e.g., fish bowl) on your nightstand and fill it up with naughty ideas. Go from simple and sexy to downright freaky. For instance, write “kiss me goodnight 10x” on one note and “lick my pole up and down 10x” on another.

Some ideas may be simple but I assure you that the fact that every night brings some surprise in the bedroom will make the idea even more potent!

4. Set the TV on the adult channel.
If you already have a TV in your bedroom but it’s such a distraction that you or your partner would rather watch a program than talk to each other, then I say put it OUT of the bedroom… at least for now. This is because you need to reconnect with your lover first.

However, if you think you have the willpower to NOT look at other TV programs apart from the adult channel then keep the TV inside! Try and set a viewing schedule so you guys don’t end up getting addicted to porn though. Remember, these are just excitement tips.

So every now and then turn on the TV and watch some adult entertainment. Watch it together. You’ll be so turned on in a few minutes that you’ll be reaching for your partner sooner than you think!

5. Fill a closet drawer with sex toys.
Just like adult literature, sex toys no longer really have that taboo quality about them. Nowadays, it’s all about exploring your sensuality and using sex toys is surely one of those ways.

Store a few sex gizmos in a closet or drawer and be sure to use them on each other at least 2x a month! You’ll learn A LOT about yourself and your partner with this idea alone.

6. Buy adult posters!
Here’s a fact: men are visual creatures. Show a man a nude woman and his pole starts to stand at attention. Women are also visual creatures but they don’t like seeing anything vulgar or offensive. The solution? Go out together and busy some inexpensive yet racing adult posters.

Once home, set one up on the wall directly facing your bed. When you guys lay down you’ll surely end up talking about the image you see. Stir this conversation to something like “so what do you think he/she’s thinking” or “what do you think he/she’s going to do next?”. The sex talk will most likely end in some sex acts of your own!

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12 Responses to “SIX Tips to Bring VARIETY in the Bedroom”

  1. DavidNo Gravatar Says:

    My problem is that my wife who was hot as they come turned 55 and does not want to have sex. Not just to say no boy “NO” now what

  2. JosephNo Gravatar Says:

    Gabrielle,

    You said you do these things with your partner. Question. Is he doing it with you because he likes or loves you or because of the erotic suggestions you both lavish on? What kind of relationship is that? Just a real fucking relationship, right? No wonder this world is going fucking crazy.

  3. KenethNo Gravatar Says:

    grrrr nice stuff, will put it into action
    love your articles by the way -

    keep them “cuming”

    Keneth

  4. LoverboyNo Gravatar Says:

    Sexy Gabrielle,
    Your tips are always hot. I know what exactly you mean. My wife and I have been married for twenty years and still are horny as hell. We need to fuck at least once a day. She is the love of my life. Sex within marriage can be highly erotic provided both partners want to experience the emotional bonding and deeply spiritual connection that sex can bring. I read a rather cynical comment above. I believe in what you say ‘cos my wife and I too do a lot of things that most couples may consider as wild. ‘Proof of the pudding is in the eating’.
    My wife and I are totally uninhibited and because we have such great sex, our lives are filled with joy and as a result the whole family experiences this joy. Our teenaged kids feel blessed to have parents who are still lovers.
    Keep up the good work. Best wishes to you and your husband/lover.
    God Bless!

  5. alifarNo Gravatar Says:

    I WILL A LOT OF SEXI PICTURES .BECUASE I HAVE PROBLEM TIME SEX.SEND FOR ME .THNCK YOU.IAM WAIT FOR YOU .BYBY

  6. JennieNo Gravatar Says:

    Gab,

    U ve changed my emotional/sexual life with ur articles.

    i love them all

    Appreciation

    Jennie

  7. VincentNo Gravatar Says:

    Sexy Gabrielle,
    Your tips are always hot. Anyway, I know what exactly you mean and believe in what you’ve listed out ‘cos my wife and I despite being married for twenty years are still ‘red hot & passionate’ about each other. We need to make love at least once a day. The secret is that we are always willing to experiment and open to new ideas since sex is so essential. Our teenaged kids know that mama and papa are lovers. I’m so glad that I came across your site. You’ve just given us some new and exciting tips that we never heard before.
    God bless you and your husband/lover.

  8. VincentNo Gravatar Says:

    I forgot to add ‘married sex can be highly erotic’ provided both partners want it to be that way and are open-minded.

  9. Bayard RehkopfNo Gravatar Says:

    Why do you have a no print in your suggestion that you give? I cannot remember all that you have put out latley! Thanks (I think it is well worth keeping)

  10. estelleNo Gravatar Says:

    you got a nice tip i will try

  11. michaelNo Gravatar Says:

    I always have trouble giving my girl an orgasm wen im in her

  12. KermitNo Gravatar Says:

    My wife would go beserk if I brought in adult literature, poster, or sex toys. We don’t have a tv in the bedroom and if there was, she would never watch adult entertainment. A bowl of naughty ideas, might work if they were not to naughty and she didn’t think I was doing it just for sex. Change in decor, might help, but she is the one who leaves clothes all around. I used to clean the bedroom, but got tired of cleaning around all her junk and she didn’t seem to notice anyway. So what do you suggest to get our relationship on a sexier level?

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