Steamy Shower Sex Secrets Revealed
“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” – Carl W. Buechner
The shower is an erotic haven, with warm water, slippery suds and all that steamy heat. It’s like an instant set-up for great sex. The right position might be a tad tricky to master at first (I’ve got lots of tips for you below), but once you’ve got the logistics figured out, her groans and screams will be echoing off the tiled walls.
There are a bevy of stimulating sensations in the shower, which will cut your work in half. So get that water running, get your clothes off, and submerge yourself in the pure enjoyment of steamy shower sex.
Something to lean on
A lot of today’s homes are built with stand-up showers, meaning no bathtub ledge to prop yourself up on. If your partner isn’t flexible enough to rest a leg on your shoulder or have you hold it, then bend her over. If you’re still crammed for space, there are a wide range of shower benches that are sold at most hardware stores (and she’ll love it because it will give her somewhere to sit when she shaves her legs- an added plus!)
Work with the water
Water is not a long-lasting lubricant, but it does allow for easier, smoother caressing, stroking, and movement in general. Let your hands slide up and down her body. Lap the water off her neck and shoulders. Let your tongue suck the water off her breasts.
Also, if you’ve ever been hesitant about giving her oral sex (or she’s had apprehensions about going down on you), or if you’ve been looking for a “safer” venue to experiment with anal stimulation, the flowing, warm water presents a unique opportunity to work with a clean area as well as have the water dilute any natural secretions.
Lather up
Soap is fun for all sorts of reasons – it gives you a great excuse to lather her up and let your hands glide over every square inch of her body, it’s slippery and stimulating, and believe it or not, all those yummy scents that body washes come in can add to the overall steamy shower sex experience.
Give her a good rub down. Wash her hair. Hell, even break out one of those poofy sponges. Don’t leave one inch of her unexplored.
A quick word of warning: Soap should never (ever) go inside of her. When you’re using soap down there, proceed with caution. And for God’s sake, soap is not a lube.
Use the shower head to your advantage
That’s right – a removable shower head is a girl’s best friend. We don’t take long showers because we’re doing facials and exfoliating (although that’s what we tell you) – a removable shower head, especially the ones with multiple settings, are a treat all their own.
So why not take advantage of this bathroom-fixture-slash-sex-toy? First use it to massage her scalp, then slowly move it down her neck, across her shoulders and down the length of her spine. Then ever so gently bring it up between her legs while kissing her. Use it in a back-and-forth or circular motion. Change the settings on the showerhead to create different pulsations. She’ll love the exciting sensations it will create!
It’s warm, wet and fun! And that’s why we women (ahem, I) are such fans of steamy shower sex!
Much love!
Gabrielle Moore
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karan
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jezz39
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Yes we are married 29 years. I realy love my wife. But she realy dont like makeing love
that much any more as for me iam ready anytime can u help. Thanks
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I just love being in the shower….and especially with my partner. I love to use the shower head!! Nice tip.
MT Guy
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Instead of putting her leg up to your shoulder, just hook the crook of your elbow under her the back of her knee. It shouldn’t be so awkward that she’s uncomfortable while you make love to her… and that always helps.
Andy Brinzey
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Hi… I just did this routine plus fed the mood with a couple of glasse of cold Chablis wine. Very erotic play and outcome!
Nuuri adams
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Thank you mr moore for your good advise. I need more sex tips. Thanks
L.A. Jones
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you get me to excersize my immagination. I always try for a mysterious romantic interlude. I work off what is going thru her mind. I try to become hat she wants. she always cumming hard and that’s pretty nice. but that smile afterwards is worth everything. Thanks for helping me find my true nature. L.A.
Mr D
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How do you lubricate in the shower. I want to make love to my wife in the shower and in the pool, but have always had a problem lubricating. Help!
capt c
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oh my god it really work shower heads work
Genius
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I’ve always has fun with my woman in the shower (mostly because I take my time and try to envision how what I am doing to her must feel). I wanted to mention that I got a bottle of the V-Cream and tried it on her last night. (There did not seem to be a response area on the link that I saw.) Although it has great potential, I should warn your readers not to do what I did – which was to smear too much on. I covered not just the clitoral area, but up and down the vaginal lips (using the oft-erroneous ‘more is better’ line of thought). Within a minute or so she was grabbing for tissues to wipe it off because of the intense feeling of heat. OK – I got a bit ‘over zealous’ and just want to notify your readers to use this very sparingly, and just on the clitoral area. Another note – it is not the best tasting stuff. (But, then again, I had a lot to lick off.)
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ranganathan
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it works very super
Japheth
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It’s fun having shower sex, thanks 4 advice