Supercharging your Sex Drive at any Age
Today, I’m going to talk about a sensitive subject: sex and age. We all know that age is relative, just a number, etc. but it’s true that our bodies change as we grow older. Some of these changes can have a negative impact on your sex drive.
Fortunately, there are many steps you can take to diminish the effects of aging on your libido and sexual performance.
So let’s get started!
How old is old?
Jimmy Buffet once said, “No matter how old I get, those high school girls stay the same age.” Not only is this funny, it’s a healthy point of view. I certainly know that when I was 18, I thought 25 was old. When I was 25, I thought 30 was old, and so on. The older you get, the less old it seems.
Age is a number too many people get hung up on. It’s not the number of years you pass on this earth that’s important — it’s how you choose to spend that time.
Getting older is only a problem when it starts affecting your daily life. Or, as we’ll discuss, your sex life.
Women, aging and sex
Women do experience a gradual decline in sexual responsiveness as we age. The production of hormones diminishes which can affect sex drive. In addition, these physiological changes take place:
- vaginal walls become more thin and rigid
- the vagina produces less lubrication
Both these changes can cause discomfort during intercourse (so be sure to choose a good, effective lube).
Here’s the good news: a woman’s capacity to achieve orgasm remains unchanged well into her senior years. (It may take longer to achieve orgasm, however.)
Menopause is associated with the end of fertility, menstruation and the production of eggs. Traditionally, menopause has been considered the end of a woman’s sex life. People who thought this also thought that the only reason women engage in sex is to have children.
If you or your partner is an older woman who requires a longer time to achieve orgasm, you may want to try my favorite l-arginine cream to aid in sexual stimulation.
Age-related changes in a man’s sex life
The story behind the effects of age on a man’s sexual function is a little more grim. You’ve heard the often-repeated claim that a man’s peak sexual age is 18? Unfortunately, this is true. It’s a shame that most men are at their pinnacle of sexual capabilities at an age when they don’t know how to use them.
Every year after this sexual peak, a man’s steriod hormone (including testosterone) levels gradually decline. This decrease is measurable by the age of 30. Lower hormone levels mean two things:
reduced speed of physiological reactions (you get aroused more slowly)
increased refractory period (time after orgasm that it takes to achieve a second erection)
The former shortcoming is okay and can be overcome with sufficient foreplay. The second is more troublesome — like most women, I really really like round 2. Fortunately a friend of mine has found a solution that helps men get ready for round 2 faster: this product, he says, makes orgasms stronger as well as helping him get back in action.
After age 40, the urgency of sexual desire or “horniness” decreases. Men over 40 are harder to turn on and generally speaking don’t perform as well as younger men. (Don’t get your feelings hurt! There are exceptions.) This decline continues through the 50s.
Another effect of age that sets in around age 40 is a periodic inability to get an erection. It’s not that you’re not aroused — it’s just that you cannot get an erection. Many men are extremely anxious about this. Even worse, many women don’t understand this phenomenon and think that a lack of erection is a lack of excitement, arousal, and sometimes even a sign of ambivalence. That’s why pharmaceuticals that promise instant erections are so popular among men with anxieties and low self-esteem.
Despite these changes in a man’s body, recent studies have indicated that healthy men enjoy fulfilling sex lives into old, old age. Men are also fertile their entire lives, so age need not diminish one’s ability to father children.
Men concerned about declining hormone levels should strongly consider trying Endowmax. The herbs in the formula help stimulate the body to increase testosterone production and can help you shed those extra decades when you’re in bed.
Sex and age — the bottom line
All studies that have been done lately has indicated that many of our ideas about sex and age are just plain wrong. Women don’t lose interest in sex when they go through menopause. Men don’t lose interest in sex after 40 — they just need more enticement to get excited.
The best thing you can do for your sexual health is to be fit. Eat healthy foods in moderation and go to the gym. Avoid stress, or, if you can’t, learn to deal with it in a healthy manner. Above all else, talk to your partner about your concerns. Keep the lines of communication open.
And remember — you can enjoy a healthy, fulfilling sex life for as long as you want!
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Adrian
Says:
Hi gaby, I agree when we get older we do lose some sexual desire. I didnt lose desire but some Stamina. My erection is not what it use to be. I’m only 25 so its kinda strange. Some nights I could go with out sex because of my erection. I’m in good shape no body fat. I do crave sex all the time though and I have no problem with all night long. I usually out last my woman so maybe its OK.
Thanx for messages
Joey
Says:
Just believe in eternal life and preserve your youth infinitly. Keep you sex drive, and do it with the right guys. I love you, dont let your sex drive diminish! Thank you so much for writing to me, it is so special. Maybe we can get together and I will show you what I am talking about. Believe in GOD> Love, kisses, & xox,
Joey
mark
Says:
im realy sorry i cant do much now my lady and i are no longer a subject and i dont know how to go out looking any more thanks mark
bobby
Says:
Hi Gabrelle! What a fine observation about age and sexual performance. To me, it’s really sad that sexual drive deminishes with age. So, the honest truth about me, I must be the exception to the rule, as stated. So, let me induldge a little about me. I’m 58 1/2 years of physical age and mentally agile and alert. I started to get hard-ons in my preteens and it always woke me up in the mornings. It always woke up before I did. Every day of my life I would always get hard many times during the day and night. I’ve always maintained my health, although I was pretty rough on the alcohol and grass when I was in my middle 20’s. Gave that up, although a few drinks during the weekend is fine, but not drunk anymore. (The day after I was always devestated). Whenever I had sex with a woman, I’ve always been able to climax 3 times, each and every time I have had sex, and I’ve had quite a few ladys enjoy me tremendously. I still maintain a healthy sex drive to this day. My penis is a little over 6 1/2 inches long and I’m a healthy 5 1/2 inches in diameter. I’m not quick on the draw, either. 2 to 2 1/2 hours in bed, of course, with pillow talk in between sessions. My wife absolutlely loves me and is always eager to jump at every opportunity when I get amorous. 24 years and still going strong. If I was to take Viagra or other male enhancement item, she would be in serious trouble. Health is everything, believe me. And you’re much happier and alive. People take notice. They believe I’m 43. No kidding!
Pavel
Says:
As always, Gabrielle, your subjects are right to the point. There was a time when my unaided erections were 8 inches plus, so taut there was no foreskin. The way I see it today, if the ladies like my erection, they will spread their legs in welcome. If they don’t, then I get no action. I don’t care. I’m not making myself sick over whether they like my erections. I don’t use Viagra or anything else as a sex aid. The ladies can take me or leave me. I do appreciate your good advice, and please keep it coming. Thank you, Gabrielle.
Brad
Says:
thanks for the good info
shane
Says:
i do agree with what you have written Gabby it happens i was one who made love every day for many years so when we get older we are inclined to slow down,still i love the lovemaking and the skill one needs to give pleasure to the partner as is most important not to be selfish,Love the female and worship her body always
Ricardo
Says:
Thank you Gabrielle, for your advise it is all the time at the right time.
Ricardo
johnny mutua
Says:
good,superb.thanks Gabrielle.
Kevin
Says:
I find this infomation rather usefull as there are few places to go to find out what happens after 40 as a man. This can be a very embarassing topic for men also but knowing our bodies will go through sex desire changes and that this is a norm has helped. Many times we tend to blam our parterns but even if they have some same part we need to realise that our body needs to be worked on more harded and consistent to remain in peack condition. I am sure that peak condition at 40 is not the same as peak condition at 18 or 20.
Thank you
Rick
Says:
I am now 73 and my wife is 70. I started to have difficulty in getting erections about 5 years ago. I started on Viagra and a 25 mg dose was enough to enable us to do all we needed. Then I got a ruptured blood vessel in one eye causing a small blind patch. My doctor said that I mustn’t take any more viagra because there is a connection between viagra and this kind of blindness, so we have failed to achieve penetration for the last 3 years. I have recently been experimenting with a pump to achieve an erection but it is impossible to get the dick ring that keeps the blood in my penis in position before it deflates. I have tried the lasso type of ring but this slips undone within a few seconds. While we still enjoy manual lovemaking and my wife still gets a good long-lasting clitoral orgasm that often extends when she asks me to use my fingers on her G-spot we would both love to be able to cum with penetration as a finisher. My wife usually finishes me off with a limp wank but it isn’t as good as the real thing. Finally, I seem to be able to get my wife up to a higher level of orgasm when I work on her clitoris with my tongue but she doesn’t like me doing it because I usually finish up with a sore patch on my lip that shows for a couple of days. Any suggestions to help solve our problems?
bill
Says:
thanks for the advice keep it up
bill
Says:
thanks for all the advice it helps alot ps i did order the v cream thanks again
johnson
Says:
You are a genius! I am gonna read this over and over and over again like a stolen diary from a dream gal. Thanx Gabrielle. x
John
Says:
Gabrielle, I am 45 years old and have no trouble getting a erection my sex drive is as if I was still 20 the prob is that my wife that I love very much has alot of pain when we have intercourse. she has been to Dr.after Dr and they do not see anything. My wife love’s me very much and likes to make love to me. But beacuse of the pain, it is hard to get her desire up, and when we talk about it she gets very upset because
she feels like she is letting me down. what can you tell me. thank you ……..John