Teach Her to Find YOUR G-spot

There are a few little details that need to be addressed before asking your partner to lube up and send her finger on the hunt for your manly love bud. But as always, the right approach, mental preparation and instructions are the keys. Read on for all you need to know to getting her to your money spot.

how to find the male gspot

The Male G-Spot – Getting Started…

Naturally you need to make sure that this is something she actually wants to do. Most of us have been raised to think that the anus is about as nasty as can be as far as our body goes, so some women especially may be really uptight about it and the last thing you need is a reluctant or bitter participant anywhere near your behind!

To make her understand why you’d like her to give it a go, explain how incredible it’ll make you feel and make sure she knows that you’re more than happy to reciprocate later. Once you’ve got that out of the way, it’s time to prep for play. Here’s what you should do.

Take a bath or shower together. You want to make sure that things are as clean as can be—especially if either of you is squeamish about that part of the body and what its function is! This can also help to relax you which will make things a lot easier on the tension front, if you know what I mean.

Make sure her nails are trimmed and her hands are clean. Since she will be venturing into extremely sensitive and likely unchartered territory, these are a must to avoid scarring you physically and emotionally! You want to avoid scratches which could lead to infection if things get in there that shouldn’t thanks to dirty nails.

Have lots of lube on hand. You’ll need to use lots of lube for this to go well. Keep it close by so you can add more and help freshen up the supply if need be. (Trust me—you’ll know when it’s time to add more lube)

Get comfortable. Lying on your back and using a pillow under you to prop you up will be the best position for you. If she’s a little shy about having you watch—or vice versa—lying on your stomach is the best alternative.

On the Hunt She Goes…

Now that you’re both prepped and ready; it’s time to begin. Use these tips to help guide her to giving you exactly what you’re craving.

• Stroke your penis and have her use her lubed finger to tease and stimulate your anus at the same time. When it comes to backdoor play, the more aroused you are the better it will feel. It’ll help to loosen things up, if you know what I mean.

• Let her know when you’re ready for penetration and then have her slide her finger inside of you slowly until she reaches your prostate gland. Tell her that it feels like a small bulb of tissue the size of a walnut so she’ll know what to look for to avoid any unnecessary poking around.

• Tell her to use her finger to massage the sides of the gland over and over while gradually increasing pressure. You should be letting her know what feels good and what doesn’t so that she can adjust her moves accordingly.

• When you find what feels the best, tell her to keep at it since it’s the repetitive stimulation that will lead to the end result. Before you know it you’ll be coming like a champ and seeing stars!!

Male G-Spot Extra Tip

The center of the prostate is super sensitive because it is filled with nerve endings that make every touch incredibly intense—not necessarily in the good way! Playing with it could almost be painful, so make sure she sticks to the sides and the surrounding muscles while she’s massaging away to guarantee as little pain as possible.

And finally, since we’re on the subject of pain; this is a part of the body that you may not be used to having manipulated, so be prepared to possibly feel some pain at first. On a good note; the pain is usually minimal and a small price to pay for the pleasure that awaits!

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8 Responses to “Teach Her to Find YOUR G-spot”

  1. I had a lover several years ago that introduced me to pushing her finger into my anus and massaging my G spot. The first time I was uneasy but she took it slow and I was coming rather quickly. She then let me do it to her as i also used my thumb to play with her clitoris an she really climaxed.
    I have tried to do the same with my wife but she won.t have any part of this as she feels it’s to dirty and naughty.

  2. Thanks Gab,
    Its become part of our love n passion play for me to finger / tongue my wife’s g-spot and within no time she squeals with delight while gushing loads of cum into my waiting mouth. Her fingering my g-spot is something new and next time we have a marathon session I’ll tell her about your latest tip. Sounds hot n exciting. It helps cos the two of us are totally uninhibited.

  3. I love it… my wife can make me come anytime she wants doing this. after four or five orgasms for her, her final and best one is her last where she wants to feel me come. It only takes me 30 seconds or so once she does this. She thinks it’s awesome to watch me spurt several feet in the air.

  4. Nah, this one’s not for me, Gabrielle.
    My wife is uptight about me mucking about her back door, and I can tell you right now, I don’t want anyone or anything around my rear either.

    I do enjoy showering together to get into the mood and I love all your advice on foreplay, but really, on this one, thanks but no thanks!

  5. sex with my friend’s daughter is the best i have ever had .she expertly slides her finger into my anus, as the pleasure increases and intensifies my orgasm just at the right moment.this is the best orgasm for a male.

  6. My girlfriend’s daughter loves me to go down on her and while i lick her i insert my finger,curl it and gently massage her g spot,her orgasms are phenomenal.

  7. I have been using this technique on my girlfriend for some time now and now she is using on me and it’s terrific.

  8. My wife wont even try this, and when I try this on her she feels its like a pelvic exam. Because of her diabetic nuropethy she has trouble feeling me during sex, and she has no libbo at all. She gives me sex, but she gets no pleasure from it. I love her and wont leave her.

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