The Art of Kissing
Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.
One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!
She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!
Kissing is an Art
One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.
The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.
The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!
The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!
I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.
Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.
Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.
The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.
Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!
There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.
Happy Kissing!
IMPORTANT: Don’t forget to leave your comments below! 
Gabrielle Moore
Bob Says:
Gabrielle–Thank you for the clear, practical, tips on kissing. My lady has often said my kisses are what first attracted her to me, and it’s nice to see some suggestions on how to vary and improve on them.
fida Says:
very informative but still wants more. thanks and waiting for few more
Nhlanhla Says:
hi Gabb.
i have serious problem here my girlfriend doesnt like to have sex in the morning. no matter what technique i use she doesnt give in. i used to think that maybe she had a problem with her breath but no thats not the case. my next move is to use afrodisia but not sure if this is wright and if i end up using it should i let her know. mornings are my favourite please help.
kat Says:
I tried combining the kisses
I combined the chocolate kiss with upside down kiss , it worked like a charm . my boyfriend was turned on within seconds of me kissing him
thanx gabriel , love your tips .keep them coming
Claudia Says:
Hi Gabrielle,
Thanks for those tips. Cher sang a song called IT’s in his Kiss way back when. It’s true!
Ekzekiel Says:
I do think that this is great stuff.
Pieter Says:
Heya gabrielle,
Thanks a lot! Your posts always put some pazzaz into my thoughts of being intimate with my lady, a godsend I’d say. No-one else offers the kind of instrutions you do. Simple to follow, straight to the point and always inventive!
Krishnendu Roy Says:
Thank you for your expert advice
suliman Says:
THANKE YOU VERY MUCH BUT I HAVE COMBLEX BROPLEM WITH MY WIFE SHE CAN,T BRETH WHEN I KISSING HER
Mario Francisco Says:
Hello Gabrielle, you really have some nice tips.let me tel you that i have already tried all the kind os kisses and they all worked out. thanks
kyle Says:
thnaks alot. thats was some very good advice. ive tried it now for the past two weeks and its amazing! i never thought that a little bit more passion helped out so much in kissing.
Kola Says:
This is wonderful. actually i never received a commnet that my kiss wasn’t that good but comment of too short. With this I will surely put a reasonable adjustment to it. Thank you very much Gabrielle.
Walter Says:
My gf also love kssing this techniques will make it more pleasurable to us. Im waiting for more more, Thnaks Gabby
Angela Says:
I love honey kisses.Somewhat the same as the chocolate kiss except with honey.Plus later on you can use the honey in other places.Thanks for the other kissing types Gabrielle.
Wilson Says:
All of the above works very well in my expierience
roc hollywood Says:
a ur a god.. and, i need to know all.. everything…
bcz.. yea.. all the orgasm tips.. how to make a girl squirt….
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mukhlis Says:
thanks 4yours tips GM i would like to try the sixs kissing , but its imposible to try anothers lips GM?
tks.
Joseph Says:
Well Gabrielle.
The main kiss that I do is with the tip of my tounge between the upper teeth and the inner upper lip, then I go slowly round and round, to the bottom part of the mounth. And I can tell you when I do that, the lady I do it too makes her heart leap and at the same time takes her breath away. She gets very aroused by it, thats for sure.
Jagan Says:
Mr. Gabrille Moore
hello and hi!this is some thing very useful for me.i really enjoy doing and reading&some of it have turned worth.i have a peroblem out here.i just want to try to anal sex with my sweet heart.but she totally refuses me saying that it pains her a lot.i get totally get dissapointed and opt for intercourse[vaginal].when we get ready for sex,it has become a reharsed pratice.plzz help me out and give me a detailed description to have various types of vaginal&anal intercourse.help me out Mrs.Gabrille Moore.
James Says:
im still a noob at kissing, and im glad that you have done something like this, it has helped a lot, but i still don’t reely know some things, in the upper lip kiss, do you use tongue? and in a ”normal” kiss, whats the best techniques to use with my tongue? thanks for this =) i know what im asking is amateur but i need to get these done before i can put whats on this exellent page in good use, make me proud other fans of gabby =) and thanks =) ill keep cheking this to see if anyone has helped me =) put in ‘James’ to show me your replying to me, greatest thanks =) luv u gabby
tafadzwa phillip Says:
just to add i have always found kissing to be a language that you speak with your partner if you do not kiss the love making would be terrible in my view. I like to listen to my partner as we kiss it helps me to know when to start off everything.
SANFORD Says:
GABRIELLE, BESIDES AROUSING ME EVERYTIME YOU GIVE AN EROTIC TIP, YOU HAVE BROUGHT BACK ANOTHER SEXUAL MEMORY OF MINE. I RECALL ONE MORNING AFTER MY GIRLFRIEND HAD SPENT THE NIGHT, I WOKE UP, BUT SHE WAS STILL SLEEP. AS I STILL HAVE NOW, I HAD A HUGH CRAVING TO EAT PUSSY! SO I PUT MY HEAD DOWN TO HER CROTCH(SHE HAD NO PANTIES ON UNDER HER NIGHTGOWN), MOVED HER THIGHS APART, AND BEGAN TO LICK HER PUSSY! SHE DID NOT IMMEDIATELY AWAKE, BUT INSTEAD, GRADUALLY AWOKE IN A PLEASANT MANNER. OH YES, SHE LET ME FINISH-AND SHE DID CLIMAX!
OXOXOXO, SANFORD
tad Says:
Ga(b)rielle
Lovely and Nice Works……..Plus A Little (TLC) With It Go A Long Ways……B=Bright…..Have A Nice and Lovely Day………tad