Are You TOO Quiet in Bed?
You often hear it said that women should ‘let go’ to reach their orgasms and this is indeed good advice but what about you? Are you truly letting go while having sex? Now a lot of men will say that they do. After all, don’t you always reach your orgasm? Thought so. But here’s where we women think men are NOT letting go: during the actual orgasm.
As far as I know (read: revelations from my girlfriends and women I consult with), most men simply scrunch their faces and let out a visible sigh when they’re coming. Now, mind you, we don’t want you to end up screaming like a hyena but you may want to explore being more ‘vocal’ when you’re about to come. Read on for the WHY part.
Top 3 Reasons Why Being Loud in Bed is Good for You
Ok, first of all loud does NOT necessarily mean scream. Loud can be dirty talk or really giving in to what you’re feeling while you’re cumming. You see most men will just give a short grunt and to be honest that’s not really satisfying for us women and we do feel that it’s not satisfying for you either. So here are a few more reasons why you should be louder in bed.
It’s good for HER ego.
Ok, so we’re being a little selfish here but it’s the truth all the same. You see, here’s what going through our minds when you’re quiet in bed as you climax: what is he really thinking/feeling? On the other hand, if you REALLY grunt or moan loudly or say something like “Yeahhhhhh!”, then this is what we selfishly perceive.
- I am a Sex Goddess because I am doing THIS to him!
- Oh yeah baby, this is pleasure you will NEVER get anywhere else.
We women swear… you will FEEL more powerful orgasms.
Women all over the world claim that if they let go and scream as they come, they do get more powerful, mind-blowing orgasms so the theory is… you will too! Actually – and I did ask my man this too – most men tend to be quiet because they are focusing (too hard?) on the ONCOMING release. So why not just ‘let go’ and focus on the actual release instead and if it means letting out the loudest groan, moan or swear you can ever emit… then so be it.
So, if you’re a bit lost as to what to shout out loud, here are a few examples to try.
1) God this is good. God this is good. God this is GOOOD!
2) Give it to me baby. Give it…
3) Oh [insert her name here], Oh [insert her name here], [her name]!!!!!
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