Use Sexy Toys And Accessories!

Let me give you a few hot tips to jazz things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter) by throwing in some toys and accessories.

Some couples shy away from using sex toys in their intimate lives because they believe such items are not “normal” for use with couples or are too perverse for their relationships. The truth is that more couples than you might imagine make the items we describe in the following pages a part of their intimate fun.

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Other couples may be concerned about purchasing these items. Almost every city, even fairly small ones, have stores specializing in erotic merchandise like the ones listed below. Most cities have multiple stores. Many of these stores are just as clean and inviting as any other retail outlet; others cater to a lower-quality crowd and are found mainly in dilapidated neighborhoods (these you might want to avoid). Of course, if you’re nervous about going to the stores – this is completely common at first – you can purchase all of the items from online shops from the convenience and privacy of your home.

With that said, let’s take a look at the pleasurable world of sex toys and accessories and how they can enhance your sex lives.

Sex Toy/Accessory: Dildo

Description:

Dildos are elongated pieces of material – usually latex, plastic, glass, or acrylic – that are molded into shapes similar to a penis. Dildos come in a wide range of shapes and sizes. Some are molded to closely resemble the look and feel of a penis. Others are made more for stimulating certain parts of the body, particularly the clitoris.

Besides the standard dildos, you can also purchase double-ended dildos and anal dildos.

How to Use It:

Dildos can be used in a variety of ways. The most common way is to insert it into the woman’s vagina, possibly while using the penis to penetrate her anus (some dildos are made for this specific reason), while she is masturbating the man, or while he is helping her get ready for the big event with the real thing. She can also use it to masturbate while her partner watches.

Additionally, there are dildos which are specifically designed for anal penetration. These dildos are narrower and are not as long so they fit more comfortably into the anus than a penis might and can provide a more relaxed, safer way to experience anal intercourse.

Another option are double-sided meaning both ends are meant to resemble a penis. Some of these dildos can be used with a partner – both of you can take it for a ride simultaneously. Other double-ended toys are meant to provide double pleasure to the woman: one end is meant for her vagina, the other is meant for her anus.

Why to Use It:

The main reason to play with a dildo is that it can help bring women to a climax more quickly and more consistently. While a penis may not be able to hit the right spot, dildos are designed based on a woman’s pelvic anatomy so they can apply pressure to the clitoris and help her reach an orgasm.

Another reason is that having a dildo in the bed is almost like adding a third person to the fun. You have an extra penis to play around with and in can go almost anywhere. Even the man might find it kind of fun to have a dildo gently placed in his anus – the pressure on the prostrate feels amazing!

It’s also fun to watch your partner pleasure him or herself with or without our help. A dildo makes it easy for a woman to masturbate and to “get off” and some dildos can even help men reach their pleasure zones more easily leading to a dynamic orgasm for both of you.

Purchasing Suggestions:

If you’re interested in vaginal dildos, your best choice are the ones made of glass. These are not only practical but many of them are beautiful, too. Besides the aesthetics, glass is easier to keep sanitized than plastic or many other materials. You can simply slide it into your dishwasher after you’ve finished sliding inside each other then let the heat do the trick. Glass can also withstand changes in temperature that means you can intensify your fun with a cold or a warm dildo. Imagine how penetrating your partner with a cold glass dildo is going to feel on one of those hot, muggy days. She’ll get chills in more ways than one! Keep in mind though that all that fun comes with a price – glass dildos are more expensive than other materials in general.

For other types of dildos, just make sure that you choose a toy designed for what you want to use it for. Don’t try to use a traditional dildo for anal penetration – your partner will definitely NOT appreciate it since most standard dildos are even larger and wider than a penis.

Safety Tip:

Never insert a dildo into another area of the body or into another person without thoroughly cleaning it first. You can pass on infections and diseases if you don’t take precautions. Most erotic merchandise stores do sell special cleaners for sex toys. Otherwise antibacterial soap and hot water are your best choices.

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3 Responses to “Use Sexy Toys And Accessories!”

  1. Oh I concur Gabrielle!!!! We have several and use them often!! The latest for us was a double headed dildo that my wife and another woman used at the same time!!! Oh my how hot that was to see them connected fucking with it!!!! Another favorite of ours is a black dong that I love to use on my wife and have her think about a black guy that she would love to be fucking and I will “dirty talk” with her as I fuck her with it to pretend the black guy is fucking her!!!! We also use anal ones too! I like to be giving her a DP sensation with one in her pussy and anally and at the same time licking and kissing her clitty and I turn myself on my side in 69 position so she can be sucking my cock too with all of that, so its almost like she can be thinking that she has 4 guys doing her!! She goes wild multi-orgasming getting all of that!

  2. Thanks gab! i am actually planning on buying a dildo with my boyfriend this weekend!

  3. Well, I thought you would never get to this! As my lady and I have already used a vibrator during sex, while I penetrate her vagina she loves a long, greased , slightly curved one slid up her anus to the point that I can feel it through her vaginal wall!
    She shivers and then usually starts to buck uncontrollably as she orgasms quite violently!!

    What a blast!!

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