Vibrator Techniques
““The best sex I have ever had was with my vibrator.” – Eva Longoria Parker
Some say diamonds are a girl’s best friend… others say it’s the vibrator. And having owned my fair share of gyrating toys, I can tell you that they really can be a major turn-on, which is why every man should know how to properly use one on a woman. The wrong technique can make a pleasurable sensation immediately uncomfortable. It’s also important to know how to use the right combination of moves in order to maximize excitement. Trust me – practice makes perfect, and I know all the ins and outs to using a vibrator (pun intended).
Back and forth
The best tried-and-true vibrator technique: the back-and-forth groove. It will get her juices flowing and everything down there stimulated. I’ve been known to have actual orgasms from this simple movement (going at it solo and with a mate). Start slowly and then speed things up. Vary your speeds according to her reactions (some like it slow, others like it fast). Use the tip of the toy as well as glide the shaft of the tool up and down her entire lower area.
Circular motions
Go from a straight back-and-forth vibrator technique to making circles. Use the tip of the toy to trace circles near the top of her nether regions and then slowly make your way down to her vagina (and then stop there – any contact with her anus or surrounding areas could pass germs on to the vibrator). Again, don’t be afraid to experiment with soft, slow patterns and then quicker circles.
The infamous Figure 8
I’ve talked about this technique when it comes to fingering a woman, and I get into the endless benefits of the Figure 8 in my book on foreplay – and it shouldn’t be overlooked when playing with a vibrator either. The titillating sensation of swirling the toy around her clitoris as well as her vagina will have her begging you for more. As you’re exploring, stop on any “hotspots” that seem to get her overly excited.
A little teasing
Resist the urge (and her begging) and don’t insert the vibrator right away. Although we really want it, the art of building momentum is even more stimulating, and when you do finally penetrate her (with the toy or your throbbing manhood), her screams will crack glass. Let the tip of the vibrator hover over the opening of her vagina. Keep things heightened by adding a few back and forth movements or that fabulous Figure 8 and then bring the toy back to her vagina. I promise – her toes will curl!
Slow insertion
Once you finally decide to put the vibrator inside of her, use very slow, gentle movements. Because some vibrators are made of a solid material, don’t yank the toy up – it will hit her pelvic bone and be an instant buzz-kill.
Switching things up
Play with a variety of the aforementioned vibrator techniques to achieve maximum pleasure with this gizmo – start with circular motions that gradually make their way to her vagina, insert it slowly only to withdraw and return to the circular movements. After all, vibrators are a toy – you should have fun with them!
Much love,
Gabrielle Moore
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Dalton
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Thanks for the advice. Am looking forward to seeing if this works.
Jack Municipal
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I accidentally pooped in my mouth.
sammy
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We like where I lick her pussy for s long time since I love to lick and suck her juices out of her it comes easy for us. The tool comes when she ask for it only. many times we don’t get to play with the toy due to the facts that she has orgasm when I my lips on her there is nothing like sucking cunt juices can’t get enough of it. She will usually start to play with the toy and often we get no further I like to have my orgasm in the mornings just me do what I want to do when I just want to cum in her or on her in the morning. sometimes I cum on her tits and then I will lick it off her tits she loves me to that yes sex is good when it is good keep loving and have all the orgasms you want Sammy
Peter
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my wife says she doesn’t like the sound
Amiboo
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One of our fav toys is a little vibrator that I can use while my man slowly slides in and out. It turns his cock into my favorite sex toy. I use the little vibrator on myself and around the base of his cock, sliding it around to his balls now and then.
This gets both of us amped up and then I bring it back to my clit when he starts pounding me fast and hard. He likes to hold off till he can feel me come and then he lets himself go.
This is generally the only way I can orgasm with him inside me. I’ve only ever had 2 vaginal orgasms so he relishes the chance to be deep inside me when I come.
Meagan
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Peter,
Are you sure it is the sound or maybe she is afraid to try it? I know a lot of problems are the womans afraid of what you may think or how you may react to it. I am like sammy on this one. My hubby is a wonderful partner and pleases my all the time, but before we were not as honest towards each other about how we like to have sex or what we want to try, etc. The point is you start small and work your way up!
Heartless661
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Well I have toy but we only used it once or twice. The reason is because his fingers are my vibrator……… Oh yea, he works MAGIC with his fingers and mouth….;) He drives me wild, so wild I am his own lil porn star! I will do and try everything he asked me to do so far. And oh yea, I have a few things I’ve been wanting to try and he has been sooooo good to me! Like I always wanted an anel toy in me while he pounds in my pussy and let me tell you……WOW! But he is my walking vibrator……hehehe
Nick
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Vibrators have been helping a lot when it comes to giving orgasms but I don’t like to over use them to avoid dependence
Gene
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I absolutely love the combination of licking my woman and teasing her with the vibrator – either simultaneously, or in an alternating pattern. I take my time, and when she does finally cum her thighs may lock my head in place like a vice. (I have to be ready to take a deep breath of air just before it happens, because sometimes it may be 15 seconds before she relaxes enough that I can get another breath. I know that doesn’t sound like long, but when you are not ready for it, it can seem like a long time!)
We relax, have a glass of wine, and I give her time to recover. Then, she gets me hard and I like to enter her from behind (from either the end of the bed, or with her lying on her side facing away from me) and I slide in and out of her while she pleasures herself with the vibrator. The vibrations transmit quite well to my stiff cock, and we both wind up having explosive orgasms!
Jane
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Many thanks, i’ll try them.
Curious George
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Great tips keep’em cummin’
Dean
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I’ll keep this for future reference. My lover hasn’t used a vibrator before so will have to use the softlysoftly approach. Having said that, I can make my body relax and then tremble all over while I’m in her(it’s called Kundalini and I think ou’re supposed tio do it standing up..whatever!) and it definitely revs her up…
Paul
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Gabrielle;
My wife and I are in our 40’s and I have used these techniques a lot and my wife loves them!!! Absolutely loves them!! I start the oral process with my tongue on her clit very softly and that gets her crazy. Then I will use a vibrator on low directly on he clit, while I lick and finger her at the same time. Her sweet red pussy just drips!! She screams for me not to stop and she screams,”I can tell you love licking my pussy…GOD IT IS SOOOOO GOOD!!” I use all the techniques you are teaching and my sexy wife loves it and my tongue!!
To hear her say that over and over is better than viagra! Hearing that makes me so much bigger and harder that when I finally have intercourse with her it rocks our worlds. She is so turned when I do my oral magic on her and then she sees my big penis even bigger it is just awesome the feeling we both have. We love it and each other more & more everytime we have sex! She loves my tongue and big penis more now than when we were younger!!!!
Thanks Gabrielle!!
george
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hmmmmm, it great to use toys but it greater to lick her till she cum into my face and then lick her up.
sigit
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nice alternatif,make my world….complete.. thank’s Gabrielle.