Most guys like tools. I view sex toys as pleasure tools that allow me to fully explore my creative side.

Once again, my dear, you’ve hit the nail on the head! (pun intended!)

First of all, to me, nothing is hotter than watching my wife masturbate with her toys: (Except maybe when I’m the one using them on her!)

And heres’ a little side tip: A blindfold and some fuzzy little sex play hand-cuffs can really make a difference! You can tie her up, blindfold her and really tease her with her toys!

This is the difference between sex and making love: Sex is a breif act and animals have it all the time without thinking about it.

Making love takes time, effort and thought. And it is SO much more satisfying! The sex act lasts just a few minutes: But a good love-making session can last ALL night!

Also guys, here’ a BIG tip:

We can last a few minutes when we have sex, but sometimes it takes some time for us to get hard again for round two. And women really do need multiple orgasms to really be satisfied: So after you have sex with your partner, break out the toys while you’re recovering!

You’ll get her hot and bothered and screaming all over again in no time flat, and you’ll find yourself getting hard again much quicker than you thought possible just watching her!

…and WITHOUT taking any stupid little pills that’ll probably be found to cause prostate cancer next year!!

Men are visually stimulated, and by using sex toys on your partner is a great way for doing just that! So either sit back and enjoy the show, or if you’re a ‘hands-on’ kind of guy like me, break out her vibe and take matters into your own hands!

Sometimes a good female masturbation/toy session is even worth video taping!

Personal note: My biggest fantasy is to see the missus with another woman. However, she does not happen to be into that sort of thing…

Never fear: Toys to the rescue!

For my Christmas present , I want to get her to make love to an inflatable woman on video! Dressed in sexy holiday costumes. And believe it or not if you do the lighting properly, an inflatable love doll can look remarkably REAL!

(BIG HINT: Use a RED light from a single overhead source.)

So, I finally get to see my girl-girl fantasy starring my wife, and although she may feel a little silly at the time doing it with an inflatable love doll, she knows how much the video means to me, and without actually having to have sex with another woman.

Another hot tip for guys who share this fantasy, but who’s wives may not be keen: A video of ‘mirror kissing’ is also hot! If you can position yourself and the camera properly, you can get a good 3/4 view of your wife/girlfriend kissing a full-sized mirror, it creates the illusion of a very hot girl-girl lesbian kiss!

And ladies, that is the perfect gift you could give your guy! (Its ironic that the ‘coolest’ thing a girl can do is act GAY! But let’s face it, men are hypocrites! We admit it!)

Ask 10 guys what their #1 fantasy is, and I guarantee at least 9 out of 10 will say ‘girl – girl’ scene!

Anyway, Gabrielle, I love your columns and your posts, and your book is the best investment in our relationship we’ve ever spent! And I just wanted to thank you again, for everything!

All the best!
John

PS: Incidentally, the doll we’ve chosen to use in this video is a blonde (Jessica Drake) doll called the ‘Perfect Secretery’ which is available from Adam & Eve products and is packed FREE with a DVD movie of the same name! -Unquestionably Recommended!

I would love to feel a dildo up my butt, especially if my partner was at the operating end!!!!

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